"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Justification.

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So I've been seeing my girl a while, but I REALLY miss the field. I don't want to go back to get more girls, I'm pretty monogamous when in a relationship - but rather, when I sarged and approached I seriously expanded my social circles. And I'd like to do that again.

Problem is, how do I justify to myself (Less so than to the girlfriend) that doing this again isn't cheating or anything of sorts... I tried to find an answer in all my inner game manuals, but it's still eluding me. Or maybe I've found it, but it's just too selfish for me to accept.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Please be serious...
 
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He is serious, but Ayn Rand suffers from "wyldfirism" and objectivism. She's a very controversial writer, as she inspires new techniques in thought, but there's something that nobody can put their finger on as to why she's so controversial.

So you wanna... have a life 'again'

First chance you get, you become the victim, it is your life, and you have lost it, so you want to have a life again. That is the topic, you have a purpose, you will stick to your guns.

Step one: tell your girl you want to have a life
Step two: tell her all the reasons you want to have new friends, psychological and moral reasons
Step three: She's denied everything you said in step two, tell her
Step four: compromise
Step five: hug her, say "thanks for listening", squeeze, "do you remember when we first started going out?" (The ultimate LTR attack sequence, plus hugging her creates instant emotional bond, if she don't let you do this, you messed up somewhere)
Step six: What are the two most important things she has lead you to believe she fears?
Step seven: step into her shoes, and pretend to also fear those things, then ask a dichotomic question. Assuming she will respond happily to the "when we first went out" ploy, and you chose cheating and jealousy as the two fears... "When we first started going out, would you have dumped me for another guy if he liked making new friends, or would you have gotten jealous and bitter?"

She has three options, dump you(NEXT), jealous(Next), or denial... only good option

Step eight: Have her tell you what she would have done
Step nine: Go out and make new friends, if she asks your excuse is

"That's what I thought you meant"
 
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