"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Just wondering...

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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That is the question I want you to answer. How do women hit on men?


I see there The Shocker called you a boy toy. That is a far reaching assumption and requires that women do actually hit on this 17 year old.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well ok, greenshirt. Your original post says that you are confident, however, you got insecure when I questioned the intergrity and validity of this post. Thus, I highly doubt that you are indeed confident in your day to day life.


Your post is all about bragging and showing off. If only it was showing off the real thing.


The answer to your question does not matter, because women are not asking you on dates, nor bagging you for sex, neither young girls, late twenties women, nor even 40s and 50s women.


However, your lack of confidence and general insecurity could be fixed, and you are in the right place to do that. Read DJ Bible, study the PUA material. It should be more important to you improving your self than questioning why such women ask you these insane and unreal requests for dates and sex.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Walking away has infinite power in itself, however, when done such that you get major attention, that's just plain attention whoring. Again, goes toward your confidence and insecurity.


It's a good choice to cut the crap and start learning.
 
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