"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Just wondering how many of you guys

DJnoob

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are big into body languages when it comes to reading women? I made a post about this recently and it seems like a good way to predict how women feel about you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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you can be big into anything you want, but what matters most is how you carry yourself. what she's doing is just preliminary scoping. it's simple really. if she finds you funny, then she'll smile and laugh. if she thinks you're a bore, then she'll have an emotionless face and stare into space. if she thinks your hot, then she'll glance at you whenever she gets the chance and look away.

ok, so just from these signals you know if she's into you. doesn't matter. you should already be going into the approach knowing she's into you.
 

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It's pretty easy to "read" body language. There's lists about it in the DJ Bible, I believe, and probably some other posts in the tips section.

I'll tell you one I noticed today as an example though.

I got this girl's number, and when I was talking to her about setting up our "date" for tomorrow, she started fidgeting with her necklace. Generally fidgeting with clothes means she's into you.
 

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the best way to benefit from body language is to learn how to project powerful body language, The next best thing is reading it, not only for seduction, but for LIFE. You can tell when somebody is lying, or secretly despises you. In the words of Freud, no mortal can keep a secret.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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