"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Just wondering Car Question

vitor

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I am curios what type of vehicle you guys drive and do you feel it helps or hurts your game. I drive a 2003 Kia, and a Dodge Ram. I just recently put the down payment on a new Lotus Elise which should be paid off when I come back from A-Stan. I love sports cars, and although I do not think they will get me laid I do not think it will hurt.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dear All,
I drive a 1987 Ford Wagon,I like wagons because you can have a decent size Roof Rack and carry a canoe and bikes on top.
When I first owned her she was a fairly smart car,but a poke in the car park and three encounters with Kangaroos have fixed all that.
The Beauty of a pre-computorised Car is that you can do most repairs yourself,if you travel to remote areas,you know second hand parts are not a problem,if things got serious there is the added advantage that if a mechanic has seen two cars one of them was a Ford.....Although if it got that bad,the value of the Car being mere bagatelle,you simply walk away,without even a glance backwards.
Another advantage when travelling is that you have loads of room to store your camping gear,if you feel like it you can sleep comfortably in her as well.
As for the Ladies Well,I used to cart out a very wealthy Woman who owned her own latest model Mercedes......She was more maintenence than her Motor,so I soon traded her in.
If you can't afford both,then never waste money on Cars save up for a Home.....Remember,Manner and form should never be confused with substance.
 

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Civic for years. Hopefully it'll last another couple years. Next car I plan to get will be an all electric sports car, preferably in the 50-75k range.

Nice ride will help, but an ok one won't hurt you too much either. Just keep it clean. My longest LTR was with a girl who owned a car that cost 3x as much as mine and she knew that on the first night we met (which was also the first night we banged).
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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