VIVAlasVEGASBaby
Senior Don Juan
Just What Exactly is a Don Juan?
So, what is a Don Juan? The greatest of all the people? The one who controls a group around him? The “alpha-male”? The guy who fvcks all the ladies? What is a Don Juan? Is a Don Juan the opposite of an “AFC”. For that matter, just what exactly is an AFC? Who decides who is a Don Juan or an “Average Frustrated Chump”. These questions I will discuss in a new light due to new occurrences in my believes.
Recently (about since school started) I have been having some troubles. I can imagine these are somewhat similar to Smooth as Anything’s recent problems. I saw everything as being nothing. I saw myself elevated above everyone else, looking at the world from some sort of “enlightened” stage. I saw everyone’s insecurities and faults, but none of their strengths. I felt nothing towards anyone. As a result I probably have never felt as lonely before.
I stood out; I wanted to fit in, but no matter how hard I “wanted” to, I just couldn’t. I thought the answers to all my problems was meeting another Don Juan. Having a male Don Juan friend and “Don Juan so to speak” girlfriend. Unrealistic… yes.
I have been traveling the “Don Juan” road for some time now and here is how I believe it goes.
I was watching the movie Bruce Almighty recently and I actually believe that it is very similar to the stages of being a “Don Juan”. Whether you have seen the movie or not is irrelevant.
Bruce Nolan, starts out “happy” but an AFC to some extent. A simple disappointment completely shattered his reality and made him angry. He then threw himself at his own mercy. He then “acquired” the power to do anything he wanted, except change free will. At first he rejected and was completely amazed by his powers, but then he began abusing them. He got the feeling he could do anything and no one could stop him. He ended up ruining his life because of his “power”. He then realized that while he was using his power to make his life “perfect” he could have been helping others. He changes, for the better, realizes what he wants, and begins to live the life that he should have been living since the beginning.
I have recently took an interesting turn on my own personal road. I have realized some interesting things;
That I’m in no way “better” than any “AFC”. I’m not as arrogant as I once was. I am not out of any “loop”. I am the same as anyone else. I may not be following the road society follows and I may not chase every “hot” girl I see, but I am just a human.
24 hours ago I would have told you that I would rather be an AFC. I would have told you that I would rather chase after things for no apparent reason than be a Don Juan. Why? Because I was a Don Juan, but I had no clue as to what I wanted in life; at least AFC’s want something.
I have girls hit on me constantly and I was somehow upset about this. I wanted my “great” girl and nothing less. I wanted girls to leave me alone for some reason. I wanted nothing to do with them. Why? I guess because “having” them was no challenge. I would have also told you that I wanted some ***** who would play hard to get to come into my life.
Recently I read blitz’s post on SeducingWomen101. I really have no care for Dentini9’s posts only because they are long and unorganized, but blitz’s post made me realize something that I almost feel dumb for not realizing earlier on.
I do not attract women because I have some special “power” or natural ability. I attract girls because I am an attractive male. I have confidence that isn’t derived from my success with the opposite sex and I’m happy. This coupled with my good looks makes me simply an attractive male.
I think I am beginning to understand this whole thing. I am beginning to find my place in this world and I’m beginning to decide just what I want from this life. I feel very privileged to be learning what I want from life at such a young age of 15. I am a freshman in high school and I have sophomores who hit on me! This isn’t even the amazing thing; the amazing thing is that I was somehow UPSET about this!!!
I am now in a state of thankfulness (kind of ironic I had this revelation on Thanksgiving Day). I think I really am ready to move on and live my life. No more regrets, no more lies to myself, no more hiding from my fears or my insecurities. I am ready to be a real man, rather than kid myself.
So back to the question I originally posed…
What is a Don Juan?
The truth is that a Don Juan is whatever you want it to be. A Don Juan is the “you” that has been itching to come up your entire life. A “true” Don Juan doesn’t HAVE to wait 4 days to call, or HAVE to “treat all girls the same”.
A “Don Juan” does what he wants to. A Don Juan makes the decision about what he wants. You don’t have to follow the bible step by step to be a Don Juan. The truth is that you have to make the decision for yourself. A Don Juan is not a mindset, but its not about getting girls either. It’s about choosing what YOU want and then going out and getting it.
I wanted to write this for a few reasons. I want people to realize that everyone has it in them. Everyone has the opportunity to be what they want. I want everyone to know that life is really what you make it and deciding what you want really is the key to begin living.
I think I’ll be leaving the boards. I may just pop back in from time to time, but I have realized that sosuave.com has become an AFC paradise and the fact is is that it has nothing more to offer me. I thank everyone who has in some way influenced the last 8 months of my life. I wish everyone good luck with their lives. I am now going to live my own. So VIVAlasVEGASBaby is now signing off. Good bye and Good luck to all of you.
So, what is a Don Juan? The greatest of all the people? The one who controls a group around him? The “alpha-male”? The guy who fvcks all the ladies? What is a Don Juan? Is a Don Juan the opposite of an “AFC”. For that matter, just what exactly is an AFC? Who decides who is a Don Juan or an “Average Frustrated Chump”. These questions I will discuss in a new light due to new occurrences in my believes.
Recently (about since school started) I have been having some troubles. I can imagine these are somewhat similar to Smooth as Anything’s recent problems. I saw everything as being nothing. I saw myself elevated above everyone else, looking at the world from some sort of “enlightened” stage. I saw everyone’s insecurities and faults, but none of their strengths. I felt nothing towards anyone. As a result I probably have never felt as lonely before.
I stood out; I wanted to fit in, but no matter how hard I “wanted” to, I just couldn’t. I thought the answers to all my problems was meeting another Don Juan. Having a male Don Juan friend and “Don Juan so to speak” girlfriend. Unrealistic… yes.
I have been traveling the “Don Juan” road for some time now and here is how I believe it goes.
I was watching the movie Bruce Almighty recently and I actually believe that it is very similar to the stages of being a “Don Juan”. Whether you have seen the movie or not is irrelevant.
Bruce Nolan, starts out “happy” but an AFC to some extent. A simple disappointment completely shattered his reality and made him angry. He then threw himself at his own mercy. He then “acquired” the power to do anything he wanted, except change free will. At first he rejected and was completely amazed by his powers, but then he began abusing them. He got the feeling he could do anything and no one could stop him. He ended up ruining his life because of his “power”. He then realized that while he was using his power to make his life “perfect” he could have been helping others. He changes, for the better, realizes what he wants, and begins to live the life that he should have been living since the beginning.
I have recently took an interesting turn on my own personal road. I have realized some interesting things;
That I’m in no way “better” than any “AFC”. I’m not as arrogant as I once was. I am not out of any “loop”. I am the same as anyone else. I may not be following the road society follows and I may not chase every “hot” girl I see, but I am just a human.
24 hours ago I would have told you that I would rather be an AFC. I would have told you that I would rather chase after things for no apparent reason than be a Don Juan. Why? Because I was a Don Juan, but I had no clue as to what I wanted in life; at least AFC’s want something.
I have girls hit on me constantly and I was somehow upset about this. I wanted my “great” girl and nothing less. I wanted girls to leave me alone for some reason. I wanted nothing to do with them. Why? I guess because “having” them was no challenge. I would have also told you that I wanted some ***** who would play hard to get to come into my life.
Recently I read blitz’s post on SeducingWomen101. I really have no care for Dentini9’s posts only because they are long and unorganized, but blitz’s post made me realize something that I almost feel dumb for not realizing earlier on.
I do not attract women because I have some special “power” or natural ability. I attract girls because I am an attractive male. I have confidence that isn’t derived from my success with the opposite sex and I’m happy. This coupled with my good looks makes me simply an attractive male.
I think I am beginning to understand this whole thing. I am beginning to find my place in this world and I’m beginning to decide just what I want from this life. I feel very privileged to be learning what I want from life at such a young age of 15. I am a freshman in high school and I have sophomores who hit on me! This isn’t even the amazing thing; the amazing thing is that I was somehow UPSET about this!!!
I am now in a state of thankfulness (kind of ironic I had this revelation on Thanksgiving Day). I think I really am ready to move on and live my life. No more regrets, no more lies to myself, no more hiding from my fears or my insecurities. I am ready to be a real man, rather than kid myself.
So back to the question I originally posed…
What is a Don Juan?
The truth is that a Don Juan is whatever you want it to be. A Don Juan is the “you” that has been itching to come up your entire life. A “true” Don Juan doesn’t HAVE to wait 4 days to call, or HAVE to “treat all girls the same”.
A “Don Juan” does what he wants to. A Don Juan makes the decision about what he wants. You don’t have to follow the bible step by step to be a Don Juan. The truth is that you have to make the decision for yourself. A Don Juan is not a mindset, but its not about getting girls either. It’s about choosing what YOU want and then going out and getting it.
I wanted to write this for a few reasons. I want people to realize that everyone has it in them. Everyone has the opportunity to be what they want. I want everyone to know that life is really what you make it and deciding what you want really is the key to begin living.
I think I’ll be leaving the boards. I may just pop back in from time to time, but I have realized that sosuave.com has become an AFC paradise and the fact is is that it has nothing more to offer me. I thank everyone who has in some way influenced the last 8 months of my life. I wish everyone good luck with their lives. I am now going to live my own. So VIVAlasVEGASBaby is now signing off. Good bye and Good luck to all of you.
