"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Just wanted to say thank you all

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Well i gotta say these site has helped me so much i decided to make a post just saying thank you to all the dj's here as well as to the great doc for all the advise and time they take to help us chumps out.
I remember that one night i found these site just before going to my first hs party, it was like a sign lol. That night i danced for my first time in my life with another girl *something i prob would never had done as shy as i was* thanks to the encouragement i got from these site.

I practiced and have becomed really confident in myself to the point i sometimes feel i can get anyone i really want, not sure if its a good thing though i was never like that and my friends say im too ****y sometimes. But i have being talking to 3 girls at the same time and even had all 3 of them fall for me.

Now i have a gf i really like,that loves me to death and i have these site to thank for.
Ty for all the encouragement,advise, and techniques that you have all shared with us =).
These site has changed me from that self conscious shy mind to a more confident bold student.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Man, how did you get that good so fast? What are some of the things you've learned--I am gradually improving over time, so--Any advice, tips that made you successful?
 
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Well i remember someone once told me in these forums that if a girl thinks ur cute in hs thats pretty much 80% of the battle won. Now when girls told me oh your cute i dint get any self conscious thoughts and think oh she Just thinks im cute, i just got more confident in myself . I just read what people have said on how to respect and have confidence in yourself.

I think im an attractive cute guy and is there loss if they dont go with me. I flirt my ass off with girls with no fears because i feel confident in myself. I dont know why, but these site made me realize it i may not be as cute or as attractive as i think i am but dammit who cares? If it makes u feel better about urself and take away that fear then do it. Also im no longer afraid of being bold with girls and asking girls out, because i read that the majority of guys dont get rejected..is the fear of rejection and i can so relate to that, not anymore though, now i just think heck what do i got to loose?
Nothing, what does she have to loose? me! =P You be surprised how good it works when u say that to urself.
 
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