anyway, my sister-in-law, comes down to my house, she's 19 years old and I'm 30. She asks if i can help her with her laptop like putting in an antivirus, firewall, etc etc so she can protect her laptop. i downloaded everything that I think she needs and for some reason , with vista, it downloads it in the download directory of my documents. anyway, i went to look for the antivirus.exe file to install. i manually went looking for it in the downloads folder and at the same time, i see pictures of her in lingerie and pictures of her private area with see thru underwear..i didnt react at all but she got so embarrassed and she said if we can do this another time. i said yeah... and i told her she can install the file herself, its in that folder. dont get me wrong, my sister in law is a pretty gal but i just want to share this with you guys. Then i told her "dang you are crazy" and then she left my house!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
just want to share this with people
- Thread starter 909pua
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Amberjhons
Don Juan
- Joined
- Aug 18, 2009
- Messages
- 25
- Reaction score
- 0
You are wise.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
OTB
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 26, 2008
- Messages
- 581
- Reaction score
- 17
I completely agree with Perry on this! ;-)Perry said:
On a completely unrelated note, I absolutely love your signature dude!
If she's talking to you, she's giving you a chance.
It's just simple & straight to the point. The funny this is, many people on this forum don't even recognize that!
Bonus props for uncomplicating sh1t and spreading around the knowledge about how simple "The Game" truly is! :yes:
hey guys thanks for the replies. the game is as simple as my signature..
this will be off topic but last night i took a friend of mine out, she actually texted me saying "hey how are you" and i knew what that meant. girls just dont text you for no damn reason. so then i texted back saying "hey im free to chill tonight, just let me know". 3 hours laters she calls and tells me to go have dinner with her and to pick her up.
to make the story short, i got her at her house, we went to BJs, i told her i had no money and she paid for my drinks and food. she even wanted to get me more drunk and i told her i was the designated driver and cant drink that much. then fast forward an hour or two i told her it was getting late and i needed to go home and she said "why are you rushing things? just take your time, and chill" i knew what this meant so then i lean over to her and say "hey you know what, if you want to fvck, let's go right now" and she was like "ummm i dont fvck married guys" and then immediately i said "oh ok then that cool, well then imma get going..if you dont wanna fvck me then i'll just go home" then she says "well why you rushing it?" i said "dude, let's just go fvck right now, i know you want it" she said "im down but where are we gonna go" i said "well arent there rooms around here we can rent for a few hours?" she says "ya but are you paying?" i said "no". she says "well then i guess we are not doing it" i said "ok then, im out of here..." then she continues to hold me up and prolong the night. i told her, "you know what, if you want it, just ask me and i will give it to you" she says "ok, maybe next month or something..so if i text you and i want it, do i just text you and you will know what that means?" i said "ya"
then i took her home dropped her off. then when i got home, she hit me up on facebook saying "u know my intiution was right, it was good we didn't do anything cause my son is sick, well next time." i said "that's cool, no worries"
i guess im the first guy she came across that didnt' get butt hurt because she didnt wanna give it up. so at least i didn't screw anything up...
me and this girl are good friends and she tells me about all the other guys shes' fVcking and talking to..
so i think im improving my game..
this will be off topic but last night i took a friend of mine out, she actually texted me saying "hey how are you" and i knew what that meant. girls just dont text you for no damn reason. so then i texted back saying "hey im free to chill tonight, just let me know". 3 hours laters she calls and tells me to go have dinner with her and to pick her up.
to make the story short, i got her at her house, we went to BJs, i told her i had no money and she paid for my drinks and food. she even wanted to get me more drunk and i told her i was the designated driver and cant drink that much. then fast forward an hour or two i told her it was getting late and i needed to go home and she said "why are you rushing things? just take your time, and chill" i knew what this meant so then i lean over to her and say "hey you know what, if you want to fvck, let's go right now" and she was like "ummm i dont fvck married guys" and then immediately i said "oh ok then that cool, well then imma get going..if you dont wanna fvck me then i'll just go home" then she says "well why you rushing it?" i said "dude, let's just go fvck right now, i know you want it" she said "im down but where are we gonna go" i said "well arent there rooms around here we can rent for a few hours?" she says "ya but are you paying?" i said "no". she says "well then i guess we are not doing it" i said "ok then, im out of here..." then she continues to hold me up and prolong the night. i told her, "you know what, if you want it, just ask me and i will give it to you" she says "ok, maybe next month or something..so if i text you and i want it, do i just text you and you will know what that means?" i said "ya"
then i took her home dropped her off. then when i got home, she hit me up on facebook saying "u know my intiution was right, it was good we didn't do anything cause my son is sick, well next time." i said "that's cool, no worries"
i guess im the first guy she came across that didnt' get butt hurt because she didnt wanna give it up. so at least i didn't screw anything up...
me and this girl are good friends and she tells me about all the other guys shes' fVcking and talking to..
so i think im improving my game..
youngswagger09
Don Juan
funny story.. lol
Joe Stud
Master Don Juan
Cute I guess. But if you would have sprung for a $35 room, you could have had a much better time.
You owe her a dinner now right? make it work for ya
You owe her a dinner now right? make it work for ya
but hey shes still talking to you so you still have a chance."You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.