Just turned 21 last saturday

[FeelsBadMan]

Turned 21 last saturday and still virgin.

In itslef it is not really a problem i just feel like i am missing out on something.

However in life i am doing really well and i am generally happ. Uni is going well got good friends i celebrated with on saturday.

I have been single for the last 2 and a half years i have been at uni. You might think uni is great to meet girls but technically i am not really at uni but in an engineering school (only in France) with 95% of guys and the couple of girls are basically guys too.

In highschool i had a couple of relationships but nothing really serious.

Due to this lack of contact with girls in general i would say i am not the sharpest tool in the box when it comes to flirting.

I feel a bit lost because I don't know were to start really.
Not sure if it matters here, i would say that in looks i am a bit above average, 1m80 70kg, i go running to stay fit and dress well.

 

[AlphaNate]

Try having some goals. When you're more experienced, you won't need goals that revolve around women; they'll come naturally.

I say this a lot here: get out there and fail. There isn't much more valuable information you can gather from women than by failing and still being able to hold frame.

 

[Von]

Les ingénieurs sont des ''bizarries social'' généralement donc inquiète toi pas... tu es pas le seul puceau.

Otherwise... congrats on being a ''global adult'', you are not limitless

3 things I would recommend:

1) Make a ''go out night''.... like the ''university bar night'' or Saturday
2) Find a passion or group, to change your ''atmosphere'' of guy-only engineer university... you will meet new people which have better tools than those you see at university
3) When going out.... go out with people ready to social approach others (the 1% of your university, or the 20% of any other social group)

Engineering school is hard... but gave yourself 1 night to enjoy and socialize (and do... like the AlphaNate suggest), you 21... you'll have energy to do it all... ad it life... you have to do everything at the same time.

Above all, congratulate yourself for making 1 step, 1 action... by asking advice here

 

[FeelsBadMan]

Les ingénieurs sont des ''bizarries social'' généralement donc inquiète toi pas... tu es pas le seul puceau.

Otherwise... congrats on being a ''global adult'', you are not limitless

3 things I would recommend:

1) Make a ''go out night''.... like the ''university bar night'' or Saturday
2) Find a passion or group, to change your ''atmosphere'' of guy-only engineer university... you will meet new people which have better tools than those you see at university
3) When going out.... go out with people ready to social approach others (the 1% of your university, or the 20% of any other social group)

Engineering school is hard... but gave yourself 1 night to enjoy and socialize (and do... like the AlphaNate suggest), you 21... you'll have energy to do it all... ad it life... you have to do everything at the same time.

Above all, congratulate yourself for making 1 step, 1 action... by asking advice here

Well socializing is not a problem. I go out almost every saturday with friends from the village where i live and sometimes during the week with friends from uni.

I want to get to know new people. However when there is the opportunity (with girls) i just don't know what to do.
Also i am slightly introverted which doesn't make things easier.

It feels like i am stuck in a circle, when i go out i tell myself "this time i will go talk to a girl i find attractive" and when the opportunity arises i don't do anything. And then i keep doing the same thing just because i don't know the way out.