"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Just tossing out some brand names...

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For those of you looking to update your wardrobe, look up some brands such as...

Croft and Barrow
Apt. 9
Axcess


I went shopping today and thsoe were basically the three brands that kept popping up when I picked up something I liked. They're relatively dressy, but I like them.

Heres some links for you
Axcess - This is the Kohl's website, where I found my clothes today. Some of the shirts are your typical looking polo or button up, however there are some very dressy looking shirts, and some dressy pants. The pants are VERY comfortable I might add.

Apt. 9 - Same thing for these. Apparently they don't have their own website, so I keep finding the Kohl's website.

Croft & Barrow - Looks like everything is at Kohls. Croft and Barrow also has some polo shirts and more casual looking clothing, for those of you who aren't feeling the dressy appearance. Tomorrow I'll post some images of the clothes I bought. Hopefully it'll give you a taste of what they look like ON somebody.

Salvatore Ferragamo - More European style. The clothes seem to have a "model" ish type look to them, however with the right mixing and matching, can be very sleek and stylish. If you end up looking at women's stuff, click the "man" up in the upper right hand corner of the page. (Suggested by SELF-MASTERY)
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm going to add links to the main post.
 
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