Just too puzzy to make that first move!!

[Gears of Led Zep]

K I'll lay it all out there to get as much help as I can, I'll try n make it quick too since I usually make threads that are too big.

I haven't madeout with a girl since 8th grade, now in 12th. My problem from then is that I've been trying desperately to get a GF, but after finding this site I told myself f*ck that I need to focus on my grades which have been declining, so this last year of HS I've been soley working on school. Ironically enough now I have all these girls on my nuts, and this one is particular who is about an HB7.

I've known her for about 2 weeks and we hang out a lot, people ask if we're going out etc, and I still haven't kissed her. Don't get me wrong, I am sexual, constantly grabbing her ass or rubbing her tits, squeezing her upper thighs all the time. My eye contact is like lazer vision, she says my eyes are the sexiest things ever...I know I get her panties wet just with some stares, does even matter what I say oh and believe me Sosuave I say some pretty stupid shyt LOL I wonder why she even likes me sometimes besides delooks. I'm quite sure this girls on my nuts; when I catch myself being needy/desperate I crank up the DJ and stop that shyt, but I definitely feel WHEN THE TIME SHOULD BE TO KISS, and I DONT DO IT, wow I reek of a puzzy guy and she can see through me easily. But then I forget about it and stop caring, and she does also becuse I lead, though I don't doubt she sadly still thinks about it.

Many times my face has been close enough to kiss but I just havent done it, she's breathin heavily all that the times right...all these things stop me though: in some ways I'm threatened by her cause she's told me she's had 7 boyfriends or something, and she's a year younger than me (16), she's definitely smarter than me, schoolwise. I have to tell myself she's ugly as **** to keep my cool, haha, she's usually got other guys hitting on her.

Even though I've got a lot going for me keeping her interest, like social proof (cute girls hit on me when we're together) or how I always keep convos sexualized, or I'm constantly teasing her/treating her like sh*t I know she's gonna get bored soon enough if I don't make that next move. Did I mention she's constantly inviting me to her house? And telling me we should get drunk etc.....damn I am so pathetic sometimes. We're on break now, 2 weeks so I know we will hang out, she owes me a massage and I give some pretty good ones so I guess I could kiss her while doing that but, damn any tips.

Whats holding me back is she's probably more experienced than me. I don't believe she's a virgin ha....I am. Haven't kissed a girl since 8th, who knows when she last did cuz she moved from upstate. But apparently I give off a vibe of a bad-boy player cuz she's always horny and got huge interest around me.

Yea if you feel like beatin my ass after reading this puzzy ass high-schooler post, I know I'd deserve it. This is some insignificant shyytt but I'd appreciate some help. I guess I should just swallow the fear and do it like Nike eh?

 

[kingxxxman]

you said it yourself. just do it bro. don't let yourself regret not doing it 10 years later.

 

[PlayCold]

Many times my face has been close enough to kiss but I just havent done it, she's breathin heavily all that the times right...all these things stop me though: in some ways I'm threatened by her cause she's told me she's had 7 boyfriends or something, and she's a year younger than me (16), she's definitely smarter than me, schoolwise.

And who says she really had 7 boyfriends before? Do you really think when she is kissing you she is thinking by herself "hmm not as good as the last 7 I had" NO DUDE!

Really if she is interested (and by the looks of it she is, but she is waiting for you to take action) she won't care. She won't laugh at you when your not as good. That's just NOT GONNA HAPPEN! I can guarantee that!

Go for it. You really got nothing to loose. Your making it really hard for yourself by thinking about it the whole time. It's something natural, just have fun with her and don't focus on "I really want to kiss her but what if...."

Yea if you feel like beatin my ass after reading this puzzy ass high-schooler post, I know I'd deserve it. This is some insignificant shyytt but I'd appreciate some help.

Also don't be to hard on yourself! Your not a puzzy ass high-schooler by posting this. Your showing you really want to take action and just are a bit insecure. We all once had that problem and believe me, once you get through it, it won't be a problem any more.


Good luck sir!

 

[Gears of Led Zep]

HOLY **** I FVCKING DID IT!!!!!I FVCKING MADE OUT WITH A GIRL FOR THE FIRST TIME IN 4 YEARS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Today I scheduled to hang out with her, didnt even want to hang out cuz I knew I'd have to kiss her but it told myself not to be a puss. We got to the mall, her sister ended up joining us (which reminded me of F28300's DONT HANG OUT W/ FRIENDS UNLESS YOU'VE FVCKED) luckily her younger sis is hot as well, and both of them think I'm cute for some reason.

Anyway, long story short, her sister left, me and the bvtch were alone and this girl was pretty much aching to have my tongue. She was sprawling herself over me whenever we'd sit down, so it would be pretty much impossible for me to puss out. I held out a little long, but eventually I said FVCK IT, and then I kissed and was reminded of the sweet sweet feeling from my younger years. I thought fvck year now I have something to write on Sosuave now I have some **** to report which is gonna escalate

I worried a little about whether I would be good or not, but then I stopped once we actually sucked face. I told myself fvck that mentality it will only hurt me---although I didn't feel like I was doing bad just maybe that I wasn't enthusiastic enough at points. Though she caught my front at points, called me a "Puzzy" who waited way to long to kiss her and comes off as a Bad Boy Player to her--at which point I said bvtch shut the hell up.

Still though, thanks Sosuave for helping me keep my cool. I mean pretty much this girl was on my nuts so much (she's been around the block, not new to the game by any means DAMN she was driving me crazy nibblin on my ear and neck) that it doesnt faze her that I probably appear new to kissing. Whatever I don't give a fvck. Now I have the confidence to kiss any other girl I want to go after, in all honesty this girl I was with is only an HB7 her sis is probably hb7.5......anyway. Thanks SS

 

[Gray The Prince]

Good shvt man. Best of luck to your future endeavors. keep us updated on some of your future conquests if youd like. I'm having some of thos pre-anxiety problems but your post def inspires me to go out there and go for it all. You are DEFINITELY NOT a puzzy for posting this.

 

[PlayCold]

HOLY **** I FVCKING DID IT!!!!!I FVCKING MADE OUT WITH A GIRL FOR THE FIRST TIME IN 4 YEARS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Today I scheduled to hang out with her, didnt even want to hang out cuz I knew I'd have to kiss her but it told myself not to be a puss. We got to the mall, her sister ended up joining us (which reminded me of F28300's DONT HANG OUT W/ FRIENDS UNLESS YOU'VE FVCKED) luckily her younger sis is hot as well, and both of them think I'm cute for some reason.

Anyway, long story short, her sister left, me and the bvtch were alone and this girl was pretty much aching to have my tongue. She was sprawling herself over me whenever we'd sit down, so it would be pretty much impossible for me to puss out. I held out a little long, but eventually I said FVCK IT, and then I kissed and was reminded of the sweet sweet feeling from my younger years. I thought fvck year now I have something to write on Sosuave now I have some **** to report which is gonna escalate

I worried a little about whether I would be good or not, but then I stopped once we actually sucked face. I told myself fvck that mentality it will only hurt me---although I didn't feel like I was doing bad just maybe that I wasn't enthusiastic enough at points. Though she caught my front at points, called me a "Puzzy" who waited way to long to kiss her and comes off as a Bad Boy Player to her--at which point I said bvtch shut the hell up.

Still though, thanks Sosuave for helping me keep my cool. I mean pretty much this girl was on my nuts so much (she's been around the block, not new to the game by any means DAMN she was driving me crazy nibblin on my ear and neck) that it doesnt faze her that I probably appear new to kissing. Whatever I don't give a fvck. Now I have the confidence to kiss any other girl I want to go after, in all honesty this girl I was with is only an HB7 her sis is probably hb7.5......anyway. Thanks SS

Congratz mate! Good luck with all the girls in the future

 

[Darth_Qurashi]

Congratulations bro. Im proud of you! You did it. Now you can do anything!

 

[ENIGMA16]

Now fvck her.

 

[Chosen1]

K I'll lay it all out there to get as much help as I can, I'll try n make it quick too since I usually make threads that are too big.

I haven't madeout with a girl since 8th grade, now in 12th. My problem from then is that I've been trying desperately to get a GF, but after finding this site I told myself f*ck that I need to focus on my grades which have been declining, so this last year of HS I've been soley working on school. Ironically enough now I have all these girls on my nuts, and this one is particular who is about an HB7.

I've known her for about 2 weeks and we hang out a lot, people ask if we're going out etc, and I still haven't kissed her. Don't get me wrong, I am sexual, constantly grabbing her ass or rubbing her tits, squeezing her upper thighs all the time. My eye contact is like lazer vision, she says my eyes are the sexiest things ever...I know I get her panties wet just with some stares, does even matter what I say oh and believe me Sosuave I say some pretty stupid shyt LOL I wonder why she even likes me sometimes besides delooks. I'm quite sure this girls on my nuts; when I catch myself being needy/desperate I crank up the DJ and stop that shyt, but I definitely feel WHEN THE TIME SHOULD BE TO KISS, and I DONT DO IT, wow I reek of a puzzy guy and she can see through me easily. But then I forget about it and stop caring, and she does also becuse I lead, though I don't doubt she sadly still thinks about it.

Many times my face has been close enough to kiss but I just havent done it, she's breathin heavily all that the times right...all these things stop me though: in some ways I'm threatened by her cause she's told me she's had 7 boyfriends or something, and she's a year younger than me (16), she's definitely smarter than me, schoolwise. I have to tell myself she's ugly as **** to keep my cool, haha, she's usually got other guys hitting on her.

Even though I've got a lot going for me keeping her interest, like social proof (cute girls hit on me when we're together) or how I always keep convos sexualized, or I'm constantly teasing her/treating her like sh*t I know she's gonna get bored soon enough if I don't make that next move. Did I mention she's constantly inviting me to her house? And telling me we should get drunk etc.....damn I am so pathetic sometimes. We're on break now, 2 weeks so I know we will hang out, she owes me a massage and I give some pretty good ones so I guess I could kiss her while doing that but, damn any tips.

Whats holding me back is she's probably more experienced than me. I don't believe she's a virgin ha....I am. Haven't kissed a girl since 8th, who knows when she last did cuz she moved from upstate. But apparently I give off a vibe of a bad-boy player cuz she's always horny and got huge interest around me.

Yea if you feel like beatin my ass after reading this puzzy ass high-schooler post, I know I'd deserve it. This is some insignificant shyytt but I'd appreciate some help. I guess I should just swallow the fear and do it like Nike eh?

Nah, man you ain't pathetic pathetic is losing your virginity at 21 that's pathetic. Actually this is step by step what I would do.

1. Take her out somewhere the mall tell her try on some sexy clothes fun eat enjoy yourself

2.go rent yourself a movie something gay cause you won't finish it

3.Kick back on the bed or couch whatever

4.start making out with her make sure you get the neck and ear area

5. move your hand down and do what comes natural

6. tell her this is bad and excuse yourself from the room but come back with a blanket (I assume you live with your parents).

7. Finger the sh!t out her while making out

8. get her to your room (practice safe sex lock the door) turn some music

9.going down on her is optional I would do it but you don't have to

10. Pull her pants down continue fingering (lick your fingers) while making out then pull your pants down

extra free advice do not jack off at all and use protection I should add I haven't been with to many girls but I know how to show them a good time

 

[Szyzzlin]

Good work! Remember that if you want to make out with a girl easily... just start touching her. It will gradually escalate to a point where your only option will be to kiss her. Also, if a girl is making some serious eye contact with you = she wants to make out NOW