My style has always been to hook up with a girl as soon as possible. So if you meet her at a party, do your thing and pull. Try to sleep with her if possible. Don't puss out unless she's not into the one night stands. Plan on meeting again soon to seal the deal.
Once you hook up with a girl, you put the ball in her court. You make her chase you in other words, you wait until she texts you, until she asks you out, etc. I tend to chase early so she chases later. That's really the way to do it.
You haven't even hooked up with her yet so playing hard to get might help you a little bit, but your goal at this point is to hook up with her the first chance you get. The more you hangout and talk and not hook up, the harder it will be. It's like at work you should always be the guy that doesn't even acknowledge the hot girl while every other guy drools on her. You basically play long-term with her until she starts wondering who the heck you are and then boom, first work party you lay her.
So yea in your situation, don't text her at all, wait until she texts you. She is sleeping with other guys right now, playing the field. If you're fine with that, then chill out, if you're not then don't respond to any of her texts and drop her for good, delete her Facebook, number, etc. this will send a message. Your ideal position should be where she's driving over to your place to sleep in your bed. Honestly that's the ONLY thing you should accept at this point. If she asks you out for a drink, tell her you're busy. If she asks you to hang out with her and some friends, tell her you already made plans but thanks. If she asks if she can come over, tell her I'm doing some homework/working on a project (find something to work on if she agrees) but yea you can chill for a bit. Then when she comes over, just be cold to her and if she threatens to leave, say okay have a good night. If she hops in your bed, roll on your side to sleep and if she doesn't make a move, then GO TO SLEEP. Don't get needy and hook up unless SHE initiates and even then play hardball. You have GOT to send a message.
I've learned a lot from dating crazies and the absolute best way to keep them loving you is to always be challenging (never text/call her, only see her once a week) and appearing as if you're not THAT interested. You give a little then take away A LOT. But you have to be cool with her sleeping with other dudes or else you'll never succeed at dating attractive women because you'll be jelly all the time and that's a game killer. You will never ask about a relationship as she has to be the one to present the idea, and when she does, ignore her if she's drunk
