Just Stick to the Program

[DAardwolf]

I've dropped out since making this post. I went completely off the program and embraced my inner AFC like never before. I can't even describe how stupid I've been... but I'll try anyways.

That lady I went to see that I was "going to try" with even if it meant rejection? Turns out I was way over my head with that one. She ended up responding quite well to my advances, or so I thought. I ended sleeping with her twice... like, just sleeping in the same bed, devoid of any sexuality at all. You know, because she cares about me and wants me to be a part of her life for a long time but sex would just mess that up.

Fortunately for me, she got drunk one night, described her sexual relationships with three other guys, lamented that they didn't seem to care about her.. but there was always me there for her!

I haven't contacted her since. That was on the 27th. I still fvcking want to call her and hang out and think about her all the time.

The worst part is that she's become really chummy with that waitress I had my eye on so I'm just letting that door close.

Then there's my ex. Somehow I'm back together with her? TBH, it felt good to have a girlfriend again. Until she accused me of being inappropriate with another woman in front of her. Loudly. In a crowd. She knew I was pissed and suddenly became very attentive and clingy. I got away from her as soon as possible because I felt a lot of crazy building up with that one.

I mean, serious stalker-like crazy.

That's where I am right now. I'd like to say I'm taking a break but the problem is that I'm used to getting laid at least twice a week now. But I've shown that I am not ready to get "out there" again. Too many stupid moves.

 

[MOTU]

Making mistakes is part of it, old habits take time to break. I sure know I am making them too, particularly with my favorite prospect. Ouch! Just so long as you realize it and either correct it or move on... But letting it get you down and getting out of the game is AFC behavior for sure.

 

[sodbuster]

First thing you need to get out of your head is that sex is THAT important. THAT mindset gets you into relationships with women you wouldn't consider otherwise.

 

[Yo'Mama]

This may sound counterintuitive but when there's been a girl i've liked and I've found out she has quite casually banged a few other guys, like it's nothing, I almost feel resentful to the point where I want to bang her even more. It's like everybody else has had a ride, why can't I!!!

Stupid i know - it should work the other way round, like this girl is a stupid slvt just banging guys who treat her badly, so I lose all interest. Sadly it's not though.

But all that aside being an emotional tampon for a b*tch is one of the worst things a man can do. Don't do it. If she's DTF great, if not then don't spend another second with her. Good luck!

 

[DAardwolf]

Feedback

Thanks for the feedback guys. I wasn't expecting encouragement after behaving so absolutely AFC.

I'm still avoiding both of these women. There's no use in arguing with them because my ex will still want me to marry her and the other will still want me as her cuddle-monkey-therapist.

And I don't believe that men and women should be in platonic friendships. There's just nothing left there.

@ sodbuster: "First thing you need to get out of your head is that sex is THAT important." Okay, fair point.

@ Yo'Mama: "It's like everybody else has had a ride, why can't I!!!" Yes! That's exactly it! And that's a bad mindset, as you pointed out.

@ MOTU: "But letting it get you down and getting out of the game is AFC behavior for sure." Another fair point.

Thanks again!