idk how u guys will see this...but the greatest thing happened yesterday. i was at this party and like everyone was coming up and talking to me. i had so much confidence it was awesome and i have this site to thank for that. and then later that night i was talking to this girl and she sed that she had a bad day and thats where i would ususally ask wut happened but i stopped myself...it was awesome. lol
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
just started already getting better
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