"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Just speak up and say hi

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New to forum. I always have alot to learn, and want to pass on what I've come across. Just like to pass off an interesting exchange that just happened.
In my job, I walk around the building (public setting) every so often to keep an eye on things. Picking up women is not a part of that.
Walking around, there was a woman sitting on the bench reading. (A woman I'm not interested in picking up, but attractive) I walk past, say nothing. End of story.
Next hour, I walk around building. Same woman on same bench reading. In deep tone, I say "Hi, how are you?" while making eye contact. She makes eye contact with me, smiles, and says, "Fine, how are you today? I'm just sitting here studying for.............."
and we talk for several minutes.
Just goes to show you how much people miss out on by not speaking up. Before I got into pua, I would always wait for an IOI from a woman. Alot of times that first IOI never comes until you just say something as simple as hi.
Hope this helps someone.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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the_count

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It's amazing right? I've done the exact same thing recently. I was on the bus going home from class and I just turn to this girl and ask her how her semester was going so far. Never seen the chick before but we had a pretty long conversation just from that. Another time I was at work and I say to this girl: "so how'd your day go?" and me and her have a super long conversation, it's really more simple than most people make it.
 

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Simple yet highly-effective advice. Spot on and it can brighten your day and someone else's just as easily. You never know who the next person out and about will be that you speak to. They might start sending plenty of IOI's and be really into you or they might offer you a job while watching a football game or whatever it is you find yourself doing. I've gotten a number at a bus stop doing just this.
 

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This is my wallpaper, "A simple hello could lead to a million things". Sounds gay, but not if I'm balls deep.
 
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