"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Just some thoughts

BrownBear

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After a while, I realize that the only thing that I have control over is my own action (maybe even not).

When I actually think about it, there are too many variables, that I can never consider, which will affect the consequences of my own actions.

I see that the best thing I can do for people and myself is to be responsible for myself only (physically and spiritually), and most importantly, do not take responsible for others, because I never can.

When I truly care about my own self, I know that I do not bother about money, status or any other superficial things. I just do my best to take care of my own health and do only the things that will give me the best feeling at the moment. I am humble enough to know that I cannot control anyone's lives with my action (even when it seems like that, its not).

People who are being arrogant are those who think they can change others' lives by doing good things for others. Even when the intention of their action is only to help others, there is an internal arrogant that they can affect others' lives the way they want.

With this way of thinking, I realize that Anti Dump Machine is the best guide in this site in the sense that I am humble enough to know that I can never control women the way I want, and its not that I am the prize but I am nothing at all.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Very philosophical but yes, I suppose there is truth to that. I know when I was younger I'd beat myself up a lot when I couldn't influence a certain situation to happen in my favour. Sometimes you just have to accept that there are factors you can't control and just move on..
 

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What I realize is that a set of rules like Anti-dump Machine can be operated with 2 ways of thinking. Both would work but one will strengthen my ego and turn me into an arrogant prick, while the other can give me the peace of mind.
 
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