"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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just some of my realisations

schttrj

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I am not in a mood to write a long essay in here. So, sharing some quick points, just for your review and my own understanding and internalisation:

The best way is the most simple

Girls always fall for selfish and assertive players

You fall down, you rise up, this is the journey... but you are always above the average since you are going against the rules and the normal comfort zone

successful manipulation without fulfilment or satisfaction or fun is failure

girls want right guys, not right approaches (you can get away with anything with the right frame)

you should never put too much importance on one girl, one attribute of a player

don't waste your time with one girl, just move on, another attribute of a player

right head on with laying the cards out right from the start, another attribute of a player

its a game of guts and material, trust me, guys

i think that's it, i'm charged up to play the game and i hope you should too!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"girls want right guys, not right approaches (you can get away with anything with the right frame)"

True but sometimes if the "right" guy doesn't have good game, he can ruin a potential relationship/hook up etc.

On the other hand, a lot of "wrong" guys with good game are at least successful in getting their foot in the door and getting into some sort of relationship (even if it fails)
 

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schttrj said:
girls want right guys, not right approaches (you can get away with anything with the right frame)
Very true. You can do quite well with a simple approach. I never go with canned stuff.
 

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schttrj said:
I am not in a mood to write a long essay in here. So, sharing some quick points, just for your review and my own understanding and internalisation:

The best way is the most simple

NO. The best way is the most fun.

Girls always fall for selfish and assertive players

NO. Girls always fall for self-assured and decisive players.

You fall down, you rise up, this is the journey... but you are always above the average since you are going against the rules and the normal comfort zone

YES.

successful manipulation without fulfilment or satisfaction or fun is failure

agree.

girls want right guys, not right approaches (you can get away with anything with the right frame)

NO. There is an implicit connection between the two.


you should never put too much importance on one girl, one attribute of a player

NO. You can do that if it is mutual.


don't waste your time with one girl, just move on, another attribute of a player

NO. You can spend more time and game on 1 girl BUT be prepared to move on.

right head on with laying the cards out right from the start, another attribute of a player

There are no rules. Different people have different styles.


its a game of guts and material, trust me, guys

Its a game of competence, and sincerity. Guts and confidence are simply pre-requisites.

i think that's it, i'm charged up to play the game and i hope you should too!
Good luck. Sarge on!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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