"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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just some of my realisations

schttrj

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I am not in a mood to write a long essay in here. So, sharing some quick points, just for your review and my own understanding and internalisation:

The best way is the most simple

Girls always fall for selfish and assertive players

You fall down, you rise up, this is the journey... but you are always above the average since you are going against the rules and the normal comfort zone

successful manipulation without fulfilment or satisfaction or fun is failure

girls want right guys, not right approaches (you can get away with anything with the right frame)

you should never put too much importance on one girl, one attribute of a player

don't waste your time with one girl, just move on, another attribute of a player

right head on with laying the cards out right from the start, another attribute of a player

its a game of guts and material, trust me, guys

i think that's it, i'm charged up to play the game and i hope you should too!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"girls want right guys, not right approaches (you can get away with anything with the right frame)"

True but sometimes if the "right" guy doesn't have good game, he can ruin a potential relationship/hook up etc.

On the other hand, a lot of "wrong" guys with good game are at least successful in getting their foot in the door and getting into some sort of relationship (even if it fails)
 

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schttrj said:
girls want right guys, not right approaches (you can get away with anything with the right frame)
Very true. You can do quite well with a simple approach. I never go with canned stuff.
 

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schttrj said:
I am not in a mood to write a long essay in here. So, sharing some quick points, just for your review and my own understanding and internalisation:

The best way is the most simple

NO. The best way is the most fun.

Girls always fall for selfish and assertive players

NO. Girls always fall for self-assured and decisive players.

You fall down, you rise up, this is the journey... but you are always above the average since you are going against the rules and the normal comfort zone

YES.

successful manipulation without fulfilment or satisfaction or fun is failure

agree.

girls want right guys, not right approaches (you can get away with anything with the right frame)

NO. There is an implicit connection between the two.


you should never put too much importance on one girl, one attribute of a player

NO. You can do that if it is mutual.


don't waste your time with one girl, just move on, another attribute of a player

NO. You can spend more time and game on 1 girl BUT be prepared to move on.

right head on with laying the cards out right from the start, another attribute of a player

There are no rules. Different people have different styles.


its a game of guts and material, trust me, guys

Its a game of competence, and sincerity. Guts and confidence are simply pre-requisites.

i think that's it, i'm charged up to play the game and i hope you should too!
Good luck. Sarge on!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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