"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Just some critique

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cognac

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That woman that lives in a different state I talked about earlier wants me to come visit her. How did I do on this short convo with her. There was more to it but i just included the tale end.

Her: When are you coming out?
Me: The weekend of February 13th.
Her: Cool. You can just stay with me.
Me: Is it gonna be like the movie Misery? Break my legs so I can't leave and use me as a sex toy.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Uhh, if you both like each other then does it really matter what you say other than some obvious dumb sh*t???

This place is ridiculous I swear.. :kick:
 
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