"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
"Just see you as a friend sorry"
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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flows101
Don Juan
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
typical
Master Don Juan
That may be true bro but most of these guys will sit there wanting to be with that girl and not be able to move on so telling them to cut contact is the best idea, untill they are able to stand up and do it then dont tell them to stay a mate with them, and most times its not worth it.flows101 said:NOOOO it is not over don’t listen to these fools this is a G.A.M.E when you lose you press the restart button. If she’s good looking or cute you can use her as a pivot she can help social proof you to the other girls they’ll see with her and “well she got to something in him to be around him so maybe he’s cool” remember girls ENVY each other.
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
Above all, accept this minor set back, and don't worry about it. There over 1 Billion other women on this planet, she is just 1.