"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Just realizing my dad was a donjuan

Cougar10033

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Lately as i have been reading this forum i have had flashbacks to when i was younger and growing up. I remember playing golf with my dad. I remember him always telling me always look other guys in the eye if you dont you come off as weak and no one wants that, same with girls. He would always tell me that no female is worth the **** shes giving you... there are billions of women in the world keep moving on, he would also tell me speak your mind no matter who is around, no one likes a yes man or nice guy. I also remember watching him at resteraunts and diners he would joke with all the waitresses and girls in the place, at the time i was embarrased because i thought it was rude that he was somewhat making fun of them but they loved it. He also always told me to believe that you are the biggest, strongest, fastest, funniest, and smartest person around and eventually you will carry yourself as such. Did i take my dads advice yes i did all throughout grade school and HS.. Gotmyself a Hot gf for 4 years and became deprogrammed. Now am relearning how to be a man. Sometimes you dont have to look to a website to find a real man, just look at the man that tried to raise you until you gave into societys myths, i will be talking with my dad more often.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sapiens

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Dude, good post.

Same here with my dad, I love him for it too!

My mom loves him to death, even though my old man doesn't take her sh1t.

-Sapiens
 

Bussey

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Haha, when my parents divorced my dad moved 3 hours away to Toronto.. didn't really see him very much for a couple years but now I live here... and my dad is a ****ing pimp! He doesn't feel like the typical father figure he's really cool and gives me great hook up stories and ****. He's even been my wingman one night at a superbowl party in a big bar... It was great, didn't get laid but got three numbers.

My dad also has a ltr now, but he still shows me his game isn't shot yet. Its great to watch!
 

kk2004

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hm..

I think dads are the perfet role model for us...There are the only people who can teach us about our masculinity that we find missing these days...Considering most guys here are 18-25 our dads where born during the Vietnam era...so that means there still old school and not brain washed by the panssy a*ss media.

Its like having a DJ in the house all the time. lol
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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frivolousz21

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some dads are, some aren't.
my dad was a dj type as well.

I mean drugs, beating women and becoming a massive loser...ruined it for him.


good for u guys, appreciate a good father
 

Sapiens

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
my dad was a dj type as well.

I mean drugs, beating women and becoming a massive loser...ruined it for him.


good for u guys, appreciate a good father
Dude, a DJ doesn't do drugs, beat women or is a loser.

Like the greeks said: "Know yourself and you shall know the Gods."

-Sapiens
 

spider_007

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Originally posted by Sapiens
Dude, a DJ doesn't do drugs, beat women or is a loser.

Like the greeks said: "Know yourself and you shall know the Gods."

-Sapiens

there is this thing called humor, get it.
 
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