Just realized

[Boris Rum]

In the past 2 or so years, I now feel for my father, how he has been treated by my mother. They have been married now for over 48 years lol and I don't know how he has managed to live that long. I recall growing up, dad trying to take his life several times due to issues with my mom. Question to all, do you feel bad how your mother treated your father and is it still going on? What lessons have you learnt, has it changed you life in anyway and have you ever attempted to point your old papa to sosuave.com lol?

 

[btownbuck2012]

In the past 2 or so years, I now feel for my father, how he has been treated by my mother. They have been married now for over 48 years lol and I don't know how he has managed to live that long. I recall growing up, dad trying to take his life several times due to issues with my mom. Question to all, do you feel bad how your mother treated your father and is it still going on? What lessons have you learnt, has it changed you life in anyway and have you ever attempted to point your old papa to sosuave.com lol?

One thing I'll never forget and something that really solidified the red pill for me, maybe not so much the red pill but just how women are constantly only thinking of themselves. Both my Grandfather's fought in WWII. Both saw some very intense sh*t. One came back and became a farmer and the other went on to law school.

Both were married over 50+ years to women who were very devoted to them. However the day my Grandfather who was a farmer had to get sent off to an assisted living facility, my Grandmother had to go with him, she said to us "He's making me leave my home!" and she threw a damn fit about that the rest of his life and basically drove him nuts throughout the whole process.

My other Grandmother physically assaulted my Grandfather when they moved into their assisted living facility. Neither of my Grandmother's at the time had any type of alzheimers or dementia, they were simply women acting up. Bottom line: You can't ever forget what you are at your core to a woman. There is no such thing as unconditional love between a man and woman in this way.

Am I mad at them? No? It is what it is.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

My whole family knows I go on this place, even my sisters. They really don't give a fvck lol.

Do I feel bad for my dad for the way my mother treated him? Fvxk man, I'm literally traumatized by it. I have tried talking to him about women before because he never taught me anything ever, just told me not to hit girls when I was fighting with my sister as a little kid.

Yeah it is still going on, I doubt they have sex often. I have only seen them kiss once in my life and I didn't even see their lips touch, just my mother's head going infront of my dad then my dad saying "no not in front of the kids" a few years ago. She doesn't really hit him either because once a few years ago he finally got fed up and smacked her with 4 of his fingers very lightly and she got scared. Me and my siblings heard chaos going in their bedroom and she was freaking the fvck out, just another one of her crazy episodes. We knew how crazy she was and talked amongst each other that she is so crazy and even my sisters were like "oh my gosh can she just shut the fvck up? She deserved it." My dad even felt a little guilty too. The only reason he hasn't divorced her is because his life went to complete sh!t after his parents got divorced so I can't blame him. But it did make us suffer a lot though.

My dad just looks at women like how they are. He says that they can't lead or make good decisions like a man can for example, that if a woman goes to war "she will sh!t herself" haha, that they aren't physically strong like men, etc. So he has all of that right. But he still has some things about him like you should never hit a girl no matter what she does to you (my mother has almost killed my dad a few times because of this, he told me whereas my mother wouldn't want to talk about it), you should take care of her regardless, I don't know. Honestly I don't know how to describe my dad. Like he has some traits that make him more alpha than 99.9999% of the world but also beta as fvck too. It's weird. She doesn't cross paths with my dad, but if she does something wrong and tries some sh!t with the rest of us, he doesn't discipline her. If any of us do though, he gets mad at us.

With all that being said, she hasn't ever cheated. She has gotten close to though when we were young. If she did, then my dad would have killed her and the guy no doubt, no fvcks given either. Looking back at it, fvck her.

 

[BlueAlpha1]

My whole family knows I go on this place, even my sisters. They really don't give a fvck lol.

Do I feel bad for my dad for the way my mother treated him? Fvxk man, I'm literally traumatized by it. I have tried talking to him about women before because he never taught me anything ever, just told me not to hit girls when I was fighting with my sister as a little kid.

Yeah it is still going on, I doubt they have sex often. I have only seen them kiss once in my life and I didn't even see their lips touch, just my mother's head going infront of my dad then my dad saying "no not in front of the kids" a few years ago. She doesn't really hit him either because once a few years ago he finally got fed up and smacked her with 4 of his fingers very lightly and she got scared. Me and my siblings heard chaos going in their bedroom and she was freaking the fvck out, just another one of her crazy episodes. We knew how crazy she was and talked amongst each other that she is so crazy and even my sisters were like "oh my gosh can she just shut the fvck up? She deserved it." My dad even felt a little guilty too. The only reason he hasn't divorced her is because his life went to complete sh!t after his parents got divorced so I can't blame him. But it did make us suffer a lot though.

My dad just looks at women like how they are. He says that they can't lead or make good decisions like a man can for example, that if a woman goes to war "she will sh!t herself" haha, that they aren't physically strong like men, etc. So he has all of that right. But he still has some things about him like you should never hit a girl no matter what she does to you (my mother has almost killed my dad a few times because of this, he told me whereas my mother wouldn't want to talk about it), you should take care of her regardless, I don't know. Honestly I don't know how to describe my dad. Like he has some traits that make him more alpha than 99.9999% of the world but also beta as fvck too. It's weird. She doesn't cross paths with my dad, but if she does something wrong and tries some sh!t with the rest of us, he doesn't discipline her. If any of us do though, he gets mad at us.

With all that being said, she hasn't ever cheated. She has gotten close to though when we were young. If she did, then my dad would have killed her and the guy no doubt, no fvcks given either. Looking back at it, fvck her.

My father was dead at 55 partly because of my mother's ruthless nagging that ruined their marriage and her out of control hypergamy post-divorce. Of course, he bears a ton of blame too for refusing to swallow the red bill and rebuild his life. My mom and I have a decent relationship, but deep down I will never forgive her for my childhood.

I'm about 10 years older than you, I can relate to the fits of anger and resentment. The resentment never goes away, but you learn to deal with it. You will never fully get over this, but you will have a son one day. And you can learn from the mistakes of your father by never taking an ounce of bs from the mother of your son, and she'll respect you for this. And then when your son is grown, eventually you'll teach him those values too. Your father will be proud that you learned from his mistakes.

If I ever have a family with a woman, she is going to receive a verbal warning on the night of conception that she will never take this child away from me or use him as ammunition, and that if she tries I will fight her to the ends of the earth, and win. And in a weird way, after she gets over the shock of hearing that, it'll probably produce gina tingles...

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

My father was dead at 55 partly because of my mother's ruthless nagging that ruined their marriage and her out of control hypergamy post-divorce. Of course, he bears a ton of blame too for refusing to swallow the red bill and rebuild his life. My mom and I have a decent relationship, but deep down I will never forgive her for my childhood.

I'm about 10 years older than you, I can relate to the fits of anger and resentment. The resentment never goes away, but you learn to deal with it. You will never fully get over this, but you will have a son one day. And you can learn from the mistakes of your father by never taking an ounce of bs from the mother of your son, and she'll respect you for this. And then when your son is grown, eventually you'll teach him those values too. Your father will be proud that you learned from his mistakes.

If I ever have a family with a woman, she is going to receive a verbal warning on the night of conception that she will never take this child away from me or use him as ammunition, and that if she tries I will fight her to the ends of the earth, and win. And in a weird way, after she gets over the shock of hearing that, it'll probably produce gina tingles...

Yeah I have already began noting mistakes my parents made when raising us. I will try not to make those mistakes for my kids.