wavejams007
Master Don Juan
As you DJs might have read in some of my previous posts, I have already invited a girl to the prom with me, she said yes, and I was wandering, is it a good idea to then make her my girlfriend? Just a thought to ponder.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.