"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Climax

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Hey all ya`all... Been a while since I visited here.... Been really busy etc..

Anyways, hope everyone is doing well and upping their game :)

Give a shout out if you like, I was thinking of maybe popping in here more often again... Share my experience and knowledge with you guys further :D


Laterz...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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heyyyyyy!!

godsgifttowomen said:
Ya ditto. ;-)

sup bro~!
Hey man.... Been on the go hey... Working, gyming, meeting women, partying, etc.... Launched my mom's website recently too ---> http://www.yehudit.co.za ... So yeah.... Living it up man... hehe... loving life.

And yourselfness?:p


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So your GF has finally let you log back onto Sosuave... Or does she know? Shhhhhhhh...... :p
 

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penkitten: Hey you!! Long time.... How you been? Good to see that the boys havnt driven you crazy.................................. yet:D

Francisco d'Anconia: haha.. nah I'm single again now (but happy about that, for now) How goes yourselfness?;)


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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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~ªêQµïTª$~ said:
penkitten: Hey you!! Long time.... How you been? Good to see that the boys havnt driven you crazy.................................. yet:D



Laterz...
been good , got married and wish we could have just stayed in aruba where the weather was perfect.
how you been??
 

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~ªêQµïTª$~ said:
Francisco d'Anconia: haha.. nah I'm single again now (but happy about that, for now) How goes yourselfness?;)
I'm living the dream, living the dream... :D
 

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penkitten: Been awesome hey... Living life up... really enjoying it.. Happy to hear that you are (happily) married:) Wish you all the best with that.

Francisco d'Anconia: Good to hear man... good to hear.... :up:


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