"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dk1990S111

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Several girls at my work are constantly on the phone with their bfs on their lunch and breaks. One chick is on the phone with her fiance every single day on both her 10 minute breaks and her whole lunch break. Just find it kinda crazy with all the talk on here about not being there for them to talk to at all times that these guys are so available it makes me feel sorry for them. Hell even my brother texts his gf alllll day long text after text and they live together.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Start the clock with all these people TODAY.

Bet yourself a steak dinner that in 2 years none of them will be together.

Bet yourself 3 beers that the woman will dump the man in every single case.

In 2 years, go out and have a steak dinner and 3 beers and say "damn that SoSuave place was spot on how do these guys know this sh|it !" :rockon:
 

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logicallefty said:
Start the clock with all these people TODAY.

Bet yourself a steak dinner that in 2 years none of them will be together.

Bet yourself 3 beers that the woman will dump the man in every single case.

In 2 years, go out and have a steak dinner and 3 beers and say "damn that SoSuave place was spot on how do these guys know this sh|it !" :rockon:
2 years?!! are you kidding me? It would take much less than that.
 

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I know it is wrong being so available. But what's the alternative? Girls tend to be really excited during the first weeks/months of a relationship.

Wouldn't ignoring her texts make her think that you don't like her enough or don't care about the relationship?

"Hmmm, he isn't giving me enough attention and actually ignoring me...."
 

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Can you imagine the mindless jibber jabber taking place?

"Wyd?"
"Nothing just on my lunch break.. what are you doing"
"Just got done eating a sandwich about to watch some tv"
"What kind of sandwitch?"

.etc

All the mystery and wonder gone.

And they wonder why these women jump at the opportunity of something new and exciting.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Suspens said:
I know it is wrong being so available. But what's the alternative? Girls tend to be really excited during the first weeks/months of a relationship.

Wouldn't ignoring her texts make her think that you don't like her enough or don't care about the relationship?

"Hmmm, he isn't giving me enough attention and actually ignoring me...."

That is the sad part of todays day & age with broads & texting. It may just be young b*tches that need and crave the constant attention. In my early 20's, 14-15 years ago texting existed but nobody did it! You get the girls digits & call her up.

You have to set the "texting" frame early, plain & simple.

#1 If I'm at work, that means I'm working. I have deadlines and meetings ALL DAY LONG. What ever she is texting is it really that important she can't wait?

#2 I don't do conversations through text. Save the stories for when you meet up with them other wise wtf are you going to talk about when you see them?

I dealt with this last week with a pontential plate, she texted waaay the f*ck too much. It's actually a good way to screen, IMO.

A) If they jump right into GF mode texting you all the time thats just to damn needy for me.
B) It could also be a sign that they are rebounding, they are use to beta bf texting all day.
 
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I think they do it to signal that they have a bf. To their co workers....like they have a life outside of work....yea right...you know they be chilling in front of the tv....otherwise they would be banging hot if they worked out some.

Plus girls talk all day...it doesnt matter at all. Like listening to a cd.
 

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well they love each other leave them alone dont be bitter its non of your business some people like to get chained :}
 

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They are used as emotional tampons and turned into girlfriends with penis.The more they talk the faster they will become boring,predictable,submissive.Even best food gets boring if served every day.

But I understand these guys,game must be learned,as beta is now default state of a man.I was like this myself.

Most men will never discover red pill and spent their life in matrix.You cant save them, you can only save yourself.
 

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It's not necessarily the quantity, it's the content. If you make your conversation with her more interesting than most things in her life, she will genuinely enjoy talking to you and look forward to it.

However, most AFCs automatically believe that once they have the girl, they have her for good. Therefore, there's no reason for them to make their conversations interesting with their women.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Can't comment on whether its right or wrong. But people must fill up their time with things in their lives and this is something for guys and gals to do.
 

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MillionBillionaire said:
Can you imagine the mindless jibber jabber taking place?

"Wyd?"
"Nothing just on my lunch break.. what are you doing"
"Just got done eating a sandwich about to watch some tv"
"What kind of sandwitch?"

.etc

All the mystery and wonder gone.

And they wonder why these women jump at the opportunity of something new and exciting.
:crackup: Shoot with today's woman it's not even necessary to ask her these lame questions at lunchtime. She has already posted them to FB, along with:

"Going to the women's room on the 2nd floor, anyone else going?"

"Peeing in the stall next to Lisa as she tells me about her lame BF who won't stop texting her"

"Ooop! No TP in my stall, luckily my girl Lisa has my back and handed me some under the wall"

"Wiped my \|/ with this TP from work. I hate this stuff! Itching worse than I was before"

"Dang it I need to shave, I have 1 \|/ hair growing now"

OK I better stop myself!! :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 
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