"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Just need a quick opinion

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I just started a new program at college, and there is one girl in my class...I think she's pretty sexy. We talked today and she mentioned it is her birthday tomorrow, so should I do anything about it?

I can't invite her to the pub for a drink because I have to drive to an important appointment right after class, so what do you guys think i should do, that is, if anything at all?

Thanks!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Donnie Darko said:
Here is a quick opinion.

Don't post questions in the tips forum!
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Haha now thats a useful tip.
 
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Wish her a happy birthday. & ask if shes dong anything special. maybe she will invite you to her bash
 
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Since you just kind of met and it is her birthday tomorrow I would think she would already have plans, and you are busy too. So why not just ask to get together later and sort of play it as 'celebrating her birthday'.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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