"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Just moved in a new apartment, have to decorate my room

Shivastorm_88

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I expect to bring some girls back to the apartment, and since I share with roomates, I'd like to have at least a room well decorated to give a good, sensual vibe.

Already I'm seeing two girls, but my room is pretty much empty, I haven't got anything yet other than a computer desk, night table and two bookshelves.

What would you guys suggest I look into to give a sensual, sexual vibe (without being blatant)



Edit: I'm a very active guy and I do a ****load of hiking, so if anything, I was thinking of decorating my room to represent this, I'd like to try to combine the two together. I want to give a nice vibe, but at the same time be very comfortable in my room, I'll be spending a lot of time there studying and whatnot :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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georgie24

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john holmes urinating statue, the water cascading into the resivoir tub will be relaxing
 
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color lights? get like a reddish color to put around your light to give he room a red light color and feel. Candles aren't safe so, I would say go for some scented air freshner. An exotic one. Get the one that sprays into the room on its own or plugs into an outlet

curtains?

bed sheets. I think the animal ones are sexual.

Posters?
 

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get a good bed spread.. somethign classy. try put up some cool art or posters that reflect your personality.

pm me for more.. i am drunk nows. lol
 

Harry Wilmington

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Dude, real talk: for the last year my room has had nothing more than a bed/futon mattress, a green screen (for filming videos) and four blank walls with no pics or anything on it, and I've still managed to land girls.

With that said: if you're going to buy some stuff, get pictures you can hang that tell an interesting story. Also, if you wanna be real G, ask one of the girls you're seeing to go with you to the store and help you pick out stuff. I'm talkin' pictures, bed sheets, pillows, etc. Then, have her come back to your place and help you decorate your room. If played right, one thing will lead to another, and then...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bible_Belt

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Most "art" is a big rip-off. The money is in the frame. Anything paper like a poster or print needs to be framed and under glass/plastic, or else it won't last very long.

Are your walls drywalled in gypsum board? Unless they are concrete, brick, or the building is very old, they probably are. Now would be a good time to procure a cordless drill and a basic understanding of drywall. With the right anchors and hooks, you can hang anything you want on the wall, such as your climbing gear. Then it's decoration/art, conversation piece, and storage all at the same time. When you're ready to move, it's easy to fix the holes in the wall with a little drywall compound. Sand and re-paint the compound, and it's as good as new.

I had a girlfriend once who literally got turned on by the sight of me using a drill. It must be the symbolism.
 

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Photos of you hiking and what not with friends(social proof) & pictures of places you've been plus places you wanna go(not boring/convo starters)
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Most "art" is a big rip-off. The money is in the frame. Anything paper like a poster or print needs to be framed and under glass/plastic, or else it won't last very long.

Are your walls drywalled in gypsum board? Unless they are concrete, brick, or the building is very old, they probably are. Now would be a good time to procure a cordless drill and a basic understanding of drywall. With the right anchors and hooks, you can hang anything you want on the wall, such as your climbing gear. Then it's decoration/art, conversation piece, and storage all at the same time. When you're ready to move, it's easy to fix the holes in the wall with a little drywall compound. Sand and re-paint the compound, and it's as good as new.

I had a girlfriend once who literally got turned on by the sight of me using a drill. It must be the symbolism.
JimmyBizzle said:
Photos of you hiking and what not with friends(social proof) & pictures of places you've been plus places you wanna go(not boring/convo starters)

I like that, I will definitely do that
 

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She is not going to **** you because you have a half-smirking lady pinned up on your wall.

With that being said, I have a couple cool posters in my room of movies and music groups, but I also have one artsy painting in my room that I thought looked cool. My room expresses me, I don't change my personality so women will like me.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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