Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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just lost my father to cancer

Ricky

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I am so sorry to hear about your loss. That has to be a horrible feeling...

I am surprised your ex wasn't there for you. My ex lost her mom earlier in the year than her brother. I was there for her. I thought her mom was great. I didn't make it to her brothers funeral and she was a bit upset, but I didn't have an opportunity. It was so sad. I still talk to this ex to make sure she's ok.

It sounds like you are so much better off with your ex. If she wasn't there for you in her time of need forget her. She is a horrible person.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BigDawg

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My condolences, sir. I am sorry for your loss. I hope you will find some measure of comfort in the support you get from your family, friends, and your extended network here.
 
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