“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The last couple days i have just been livin life and it's been good. I read some post on the forum but the most helpful thing was on the dj bible.

Before anything i just need to focus on myself. Becasue i can't get a women if im all down all of the time and thinking depressive thoughts.

Also it's been helping me look better around this girl who shows interest in me.

We got a project in class and went to the Library and i was just talking to a few people in my class.

I see her come up to my teacher and wait to ask a question.

But instead of confronting her which i guess would of been another good idea but i chose to do something else.

I noticed someone that i knew in front of her. So i tapped her shoulder like i was going to ask something and i said oh excuse me please. And went to talk to another person

I don't know about you but when you like someone and they talk to someone else it makes me jelelous or something i dont know. But i thought it was a good idea.

Showing that i'm independent and that i'm social.

But basically i'm having fun just livin life.

But i do have a problem. I noticed that this girl hangs around this other guy sometimes. Not all of the time. But when class ends last time he walked with her. I was going to get her number , but i saw him. I just thought that would be weird. To try to get a number when someone else is with her.

Any advice on that?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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LJC said:
That guy doesn't mean anything to you until you interact with her. He could be anyone: her cousin, her sister's boyfriend, her half-brother or some guy trying to do the same thing you are. You won't know until you say hello.

As for the tap on the shoulder thing: Not bad, but you need to add more to something like that. What you did was essentially tell her to "move". Without more, she could have just as easily given you a dirty look no matter how polite you were.
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Ok don't worry about the guy, but when she's walkin with him should i try to talk to them. Because i get really nervous that way.
 
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