"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The last couple days i have just been livin life and it's been good. I read some post on the forum but the most helpful thing was on the dj bible.

Before anything i just need to focus on myself. Becasue i can't get a women if im all down all of the time and thinking depressive thoughts.

Also it's been helping me look better around this girl who shows interest in me.

We got a project in class and went to the Library and i was just talking to a few people in my class.

I see her come up to my teacher and wait to ask a question.

But instead of confronting her which i guess would of been another good idea but i chose to do something else.

I noticed someone that i knew in front of her. So i tapped her shoulder like i was going to ask something and i said oh excuse me please. And went to talk to another person

I don't know about you but when you like someone and they talk to someone else it makes me jelelous or something i dont know. But i thought it was a good idea.

Showing that i'm independent and that i'm social.

But basically i'm having fun just livin life.

But i do have a problem. I noticed that this girl hangs around this other guy sometimes. Not all of the time. But when class ends last time he walked with her. I was going to get her number , but i saw him. I just thought that would be weird. To try to get a number when someone else is with her.

Any advice on that?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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LJC said:
That guy doesn't mean anything to you until you interact with her. He could be anyone: her cousin, her sister's boyfriend, her half-brother or some guy trying to do the same thing you are. You won't know until you say hello.

As for the tap on the shoulder thing: Not bad, but you need to add more to something like that. What you did was essentially tell her to "move". Without more, she could have just as easily given you a dirty look no matter how polite you were.
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Ok don't worry about the guy, but when she's walkin with him should i try to talk to them. Because i get really nervous that way.
 
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