"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Just let go...
- Thread starter SilverSonnet
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Killer Six Pac
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WC2
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Great post. I feel this board needs something like this to loosen up the "strict tactics and beliefs" that are posted her all the time. Rep'dSilverSonnet said:Let go of yourself. Learn the techniques, finally make the a part of you, now let go. Just let yourself go, enjoy life, enjoy the moment your in, it's all you can control and be in. So, enjoy it, it's not gonna be there forever.
Too many guys on this site are tensed up about techniques, how they look etc.
I'll sum this up for you in a few simple points.
1.) Love yourself for who you are, and dont care what ANYBODY else thinks.
2.)ALWAYS keep improving
3.)Live your life for only yourself, nobody else
4.) Just have fun
5.)Let yourself flow into the moment, be the moment. Be pro-active, not reactive.
Forget about the Nice guy Vs. Jerk debate. Forget all those insignificant questions racing through your minds right now, forget about how funny your being. Because lads, one day your going to stop thinking about the techniques and what the woman is thinking of you. And then it's going to be too late to enjoy life. Your going to die someday, so make the best, AND THEN MORE of your life. Make it a spectacle, make it something to be proud of, something to be admire, enjoyed. Be a star.
And ALWAYS be true to yourself.
A little advice from a little guy
Ben
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No, I disagree with the advice. The best things to do with either type is to publicly insult them to the point where it ruins their evening.Nighthawk said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
MacAvoy
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End man crush.
SilverSonnet
Senior Don Juan
Also, there's a slightly updated version of this on my forum, if any of you just wanna take a peek.