"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Let go of yourself. Learn the techniques, finally make the a part of you, now let go. Just let yourself go, enjoy life, enjoy the moment your in, it's all you can control and be in. So, enjoy it, it's not gonna be there forever.

Too many guys on this site are tensed up about techniques, how they look etc.
I'll sum this up for you in a few simple points.

1.) Love yourself for who you are, and dont care what ANYBODY else thinks.
2.)ALWAYS keep improving
3.)Live your life for only yourself, nobody else
4.) Just have fun
5.)Let yourself flow into the moment, be the moment. Be pro-active, not reactive.

Forget about the Nice guy Vs. Jerk debate. Forget all those insignificant questions racing through your minds right now, forget about how funny your being. Because lads, one day your going to stop thinking about the techniques and what the woman is thinking of you. And then it's going to be too late to enjoy life. Your going to die someday, so make the best, AND THEN MORE of your life. Make it a spectacle, make it something to be proud of, something to be admire, enjoyed. Be a star.

And ALWAYS be true to yourself.

A little advice from a little guy

Ben :up:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Unfathomable.

This coming from a 14 year old MAN in training. Inspiring to me, to say the least.

I do not regret anything I have done or will ever do but if I knew then what this young brother knows now I would have had a much more insightful look at who I was back in the day.

Keep flowing from the scrolls brother :up:!
 

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SilverSonnet said:
Let go of yourself. Learn the techniques, finally make the a part of you, now let go. Just let yourself go, enjoy life, enjoy the moment your in, it's all you can control and be in. So, enjoy it, it's not gonna be there forever.

Too many guys on this site are tensed up about techniques, how they look etc.
I'll sum this up for you in a few simple points.

1.) Love yourself for who you are, and dont care what ANYBODY else thinks.
2.)ALWAYS keep improving
3.)Live your life for only yourself, nobody else
4.) Just have fun
5.)Let yourself flow into the moment, be the moment. Be pro-active, not reactive.

Forget about the Nice guy Vs. Jerk debate. Forget all those insignificant questions racing through your minds right now, forget about how funny your being. Because lads, one day your going to stop thinking about the techniques and what the woman is thinking of you. And then it's going to be too late to enjoy life. Your going to die someday, so make the best, AND THEN MORE of your life. Make it a spectacle, make it something to be proud of, something to be admire, enjoyed. Be a star.

And ALWAYS be true to yourself.

A little advice from a little guy

Ben :up:
Like I said in your other thread, you are a smart cookie Silver and wise beyond your years.

I hope you continue on this wonderful path.
 

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Like I said in your other thread, you are a smart cookie Silver and wise beyond your years.

I hope you continue on this wonderful path.
It all sounds good, but none of these techniques work on either the Attention Wh0re, or the LJBF flake.
 

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Why are you focussing on them? Focus on yourself, YOUR THE PRIZE! If they pull this bull, ditch them. So simple, yet you all make it up to be more than it is.
That's something I realised about this site and all of you, and Humans generally. We have to complicated things unnecessarily. So, roll with the punches, and stay fun ;)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SilverSonnet said:
Why are you focussing on them? Focus on yourself, YOUR THE PRIZE! If they pull this bull, ditch them. So simple, yet you all make it up to be more than it is.
That's something I realised about this site and all of you, and Humans generally. We have to complicated things unnecessarily. So, roll with the punches, and stay fun ;)
I wont ditch them, UNTIL: I have done something to them, that will make them resent me for the rest of their lives, unto old age.
 

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Dude, I cant even comprehend why you want people to dislike you. LBJF Flake, they never liked you in first place. They cant help not liking you, It's nobody's fault. Just wasn't meant to be.
And to the AW, your jjust giving her more attention. And more drama, which is what women love. Your only giving her what she wants.
C'mon, rise above it mate

NOW PEOPLE STAY ON TOPIC :)
 

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Dude, I cant even comprehend why you want people to dislike you. LBJF Flake, they never liked you in first place. They cant help not liking you, It's nobody's fault. Just wasn't meant to be.
And to the AW, your jjust giving her more attention. And more drama, which is what women love. Your only giving her what she wants.
C'mon, rise above it mate

NOW PEOPLE STAY ON TOPIC :)
The LJBF Flake I want to see her pay her own **** when she is with me. And the only thing the Attention Wh0re gets from me is reminded that she is looking heavier lately.
 

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Disregard Jack Prescott's bullsh!t and aggravation.

He's pissed about something he doesn't have the mental strength to overcome or realize.

Or he's just a bitter old fvck who thinks placating his ego by blaming others is noble.

That said, Brother Sonnet is correct in that focusing on the love for yourself you have in your heart will radiate manifest and project a man of valor and dignity.
 

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JackPrescott said:
I wont ditch them, UNTIL: I have done something to them, that will make them resent me for the rest of their lives, unto old age.
Why would you want to do that? You moving on is shocking enough.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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remember guys, the stuff preached here is a crutch to HELP YOU up, to BEING a DJ, it's not meant to be there permanently, when your confident, ****y, funny etc etc, let go, just...let go.
And live.
 
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you know your advice is good, but I just can't help thinking that a 14 year old is writing this. What are they teaching you in school these days?

I mean you're not even in HS yet. Picking up "women" :crackup: shouldn't be your biggest concern right now. Wait till you get to HS (16 yrs old) man. Then start looking for girls. Though improving yourself in the meantime is an absolute must.
 

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ezily said:
you know your advice is good, but I just can't help thinking that a 14 year old is writing this. What are they teaching you in school these days?
I gotta take credit for him . . . He's kinda like my toy soldier. I just wind him up and let him go.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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JackPrescott said:
I wont ditch them, UNTIL: I have done something to them, that will make them resent me for the rest of their lives, unto old age.
Jackie boy. Still don't get it. I actually pity you.


Why isn't Silver a mod yet? lol If I knew half the stuff this kid knows when I was his age, the quest for truth could gone a lot smoother.
 

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Whoah 14, serious respect man. I wish I had this mindset at 14, I would have what I want now. I was too busy worried about girls, at 14! You look like your set for big things.
 

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Seriously man, this kid's going to be the next president...well I guess prime minister since he's in the UK... If more 14 year olds (or even college kids) thought like Silver, I'd feel a hell of a lot better about the fate of my generation.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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