Just introducing myself.

[King_Supreme]

Whats up everybody, new here so just wanted to introduce myself. Stumbled across this sight the other day and it seems to be just what I need. Its crazy because im 27 so I should have the game damn near mastered by now but I dont. Now Im no lame, Ive definitely had my share of females (in fact im sleeping with 2 different ones right now) but Ive never truely mastered the cold approach (you know, just walking up to a random woman in the street). Im nice looking, confident in damn near everything I attempt, all my female friends tell me im handsome and that I can get any girl I want, everybody I know tells me that Im the most confident person they know and some even say Im boderline arrogant. No matter where I work it always gets back to me that all the female co-workers have a crush on me. I have a lot going for myself, very well educated, 4.0 college student studying accounting, have my own place, no children, all my exes tell me that they aint found nobody who can f#%* like me yet so im know im the **** in the sex department,etc. Its like I know for a fact that most women are attracted to me (thats my arrogance talking lol) but although I know this I still get nerveous approaching and the majority of the time i wont. Now if i have a class with her, or I work with her, or shes the cashier ringing me up its a lil easier, but walking up to a random female on campus is hard for me. I used to be able to do this but my confidence has taken a hit. When I was in the streets and had tons of money, nice home and 2 cars my confidence was through the roof and if a chick didnt want me (which wasnt often) I just assumed she was gay lol. But now Ive tranformed into a broke college student with no money or car and its hard for me to get back that same ****y confidence I once had. I know all I gotta is just do it and once I start experiencing a lil success Ill see that it was really nothing to fear, i just gotta get my ass on the court and take the shot though.

 

[Voice]

It sounds to me like you are hiding some insecurities with all that ****iness and arrogance. Nothing screams insecurity more than a guy that brags about his looks and how well he f*cks every girlfriend he ever had.

I always remember what pook says, perfect is boring. It seems like you try to hard to be perfect at everything you do.

 

[King_Supreme]

im not bragging about my looks i just know i do alot to keep myself up. and with the example i used about my exes i was just trying to point out that with the affirmations that i constantly recieve from the opposite sex it makes no sense for me to have confidence issues but yet i do. but about the other things your right. i do try to be perfect at everything. all my friends and professors tell me that. but is there something wrong about over achieving and wanting to be better than the next person?

 

[horaholic]

You should try the bootcamp. for a week, just say hi to strangers. The next week I believe is initiating conversations with ten strangers, but I could be wrong. Search it out.

Other than that, I suggest if it aint broke, dont fix it. If you're doing well with women, reading too much here might fvck your game up. Check out RSDnation in my sig. You might do better there. And keep a field report journal.