"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Just have fun dude.

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ElStud said:
Rapist logic? Haha, be serious now. In the end it depends on your mindset and HOW she says stop. If you go in there with the mindset of pushing her around and being mean to her, she'll since that and she'll say "Stop!" because you're just being a jerk. But if you're doing it playfully and she's sort of laughing when she says "Stop!" keep going. If you were a rapist, first of all, you wouldn't go up there with the mindset of having fun and secondly, you wouldn't be doing all that kino stuff, you'd just force her into a wall or something and rape her. Pushing her into a wall and violently hitting her, is NOT kino, that's just being straight abusive.


No... actually as long as the word stop is there, you are, by law, sexually harrassing someone.

Don't take the whole "it's about me" thing too seriously, obviously go out there to have fun, but don't take that as a do what i want and get away with it pass.

And no, just because a girl doesn't walk away, does NOT mean that you are not freaking her out.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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