"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Just have fun dude.

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ElStud said:
Rapist logic? Haha, be serious now. In the end it depends on your mindset and HOW she says stop. If you go in there with the mindset of pushing her around and being mean to her, she'll since that and she'll say "Stop!" because you're just being a jerk. But if you're doing it playfully and she's sort of laughing when she says "Stop!" keep going. If you were a rapist, first of all, you wouldn't go up there with the mindset of having fun and secondly, you wouldn't be doing all that kino stuff, you'd just force her into a wall or something and rape her. Pushing her into a wall and violently hitting her, is NOT kino, that's just being straight abusive.


No... actually as long as the word stop is there, you are, by law, sexually harrassing someone.

Don't take the whole "it's about me" thing too seriously, obviously go out there to have fun, but don't take that as a do what i want and get away with it pass.

And no, just because a girl doesn't walk away, does NOT mean that you are not freaking her out.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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