"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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just had BEST night ever

neonlimited

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this girl from work, (im a lifegaurd, VERY casual job, can do w/e i want basically) i did EVERYTHING dj (1st time trying this!!) for 2 days straight, on the last day she asked me to hang out.

We went minigolf, ate food, went back to her house, and just started making out and I had to leave. she told me we would continue this monday night!!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Congrats. Success stories are awesome. All this has finally paid off for you. Now it will seem easy.
 

neonlimited

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yeah ive been on this site for like a year and im leaving it for good now. goodbye sosuave!!
 

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Off you go, and good luck. :)

AS
 

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Originally posted by neonlimited
yeah ive been on this site for like a year and im leaving it for good now. goodbye sosuave!!
Why do people say they want to leave this site? Not only is it pointless telling us, but it is pointless leaving it.

The people who say things like this are the same people who think continued education is pointless.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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