"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Black_Italian

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Man would you go out with one girl on a first date while you are still fu*king another girl?

You better answer yes.

Its not been set down in stone that she is your gf so she can f*ck the whole Australian army. But when you tell her you want to be bf & gf she whould stop fu*king other guys. She is simply keeping her options open and have a little fun.

The invite to bring someone else is just a test. Bring someone else somone more attractive. It will sho her your not expendable.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jaun_Don

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All really good answers and replies here, we are meeting up on Friday night and then going to a movie again next week, I like this girl and I said I had something else on tonight.
 

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Originally posted by Jaun_Don
well put and I spoke to her earlier and we are meeting up Friday Night for drinks and again next week for the movies.

Great Dates don't ALWAYS have to end up with a kiss, sometimes you won't get a kiss until the 2nd maybe 3rd date...
I don't go for a kiss on the first date.

My gf now says she was happy i didn't go for it because so many guys are just all up on her way too early and she's like "dammit wait a minute can we at least talk for a minute first?!"

I do tend to go out with nicer more respectable girls though because i prefer relationships to ONS type things.
 
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