"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Just had a drink with my former Tax Attorney...

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He borrowed $50 bucks from me. His ex wife took his best clients got the business sued and dissolved, he's working in a call center now and his new 27 year old wife quit her job and refuses to work to spend more time with her son. Poor guy...chasing hot ass has ruined his life. He's 50 years old and struggling just to pay bills driving an 7 year old Jag and struggling to get new clients. And is STILL chasing skirt. Women and weed were the reasons I let him go as my accountant/tax guy. I knew if he couldn't handle those and they ran his life we would have problems with my money down the road. I'd rather have some AFC handle my cash than a player who's past his prime and fvcking up in the game.

Let it be a cautionary tale, pvssy can only be secondary in your life, you have to put you first and women second. And never, ever go into business with your woman. Don't let hot ass blind you to your goals and future well being.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Not that I have any room to judge, but substance abuse is rampant among attorneys. 3/4 of attorneys are drunks, druggies, pillheads, or potheads. The other 1/4 find some sort of escapism like sex, exercise, religion, working too much, or chasing women like an afc.
 

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Is he an attorney or a CPA? Either way, why isn't he getting back into practice? Unless he was disbarred.

On second thought, he married a 27 year old at the age of 50? Drugs and alcohol? This guy sounds like our county prosecutor.

And don't get me started on our head b!tch female judge, she's had several DUIs and been arrested with coke twice, always gets swept under the rug.
 

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Warrior74 said:
He borrowed $50 bucks from me. His ex wife took his best clients got the business sued and dissolved, he's working in a call center now and his new 27 year old wife quit her job and refuses to work to spend more time with her son. Poor guy...chasing hot ass has ruined his life. He's 50 years old and struggling just to pay bills driving an 7 year old Jag and struggling to get new clients. And is STILL chasing skirt. Women and weed were the reasons I let him go as my accountant/tax guy. I knew if he couldn't handle those and they ran his life we would have problems with my money down the road. I'd rather have some AFC handle my cash than a player who's past his prime and fvcking up in the game.

Let it be a cautionary tale, pvssy can only be secondary in your life, you have to put you first and women second. And never, ever go into business with your woman. Don't let hot ass blind you to your goals and future well being.
Reminds me of a story I was told years ago when I was in law enforcement. The badge can get you pVssy, but the pVssy can get your badge!!! It always stuck with me.

Funny thing about the attorney's Jag is it is not worth much either. A good story warrior as a reminder for us to be careful. Poor guy!!!!!!
 
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