"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Just had a convo (read it, its short)...what do I do? HELP

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pokie87

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Your convo with this girl just reeked of wussiness. When she said ''you must not be interested'' you should have said something like ''well its clear you are interested in me so you should do the calling, if you are quick you will get to the top of the list of stalkers'' You are the catch. By her saying other guys call her, who cares. You are not these other guys. You are different hence why you dont call her. If she doesnt call you big deal, there are plenty more girls out there. Stick to your rules, dont change them for anyone. This will bring you most success instead of changing the rules for specific people. Grow a pair dude.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by shark
Well by SHOWING HER I LIKE HER...wouldn't that be going again the pricipals of a DJ? Calling her would show I like her..but i'm being told not to do so?
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no, not at all.

The only reason why you are being told not to call her is BECAUSE YOU TOLD HER YOU WOULDN'T CALL. Going against that makes you a pvssy in her eyes.

Here are some examples of "showing" you like her;
-make her laugh
-give her the best kiss she's ever had
-touch her (just make sure its not awkward)
-show her a great time on a date
-look in her eyes and smile
- BE A MAN FOR FVCKS SAKE

Boys communicate verbally (Telling her that you're interested and that you like her). MEN communicate through action.

If you call her and tell her you like her, you're taking the easy and desperate way. The hard way is all about sweeping her off her feet; and the only way to do that is if you make HER play by YOUR rules.

Trust me. She won't lose interest because you didn't tell her "oh ya i like you and im interested". Hell she'll gain interest if she really likes you. Take my word for it. You're fine. Hope that cleared up your question. Good luck!
 
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