"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Just got used for sex

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I'm not even really sure how I feel about this. I'm not complaining! I got to bust a nut at least.

Here's how it went down. The plan was to meet up @ this girls place and watch some movies have some drinks etc. Eventually we would have take it to the

bedroom. But tonight after 10 mins of watching a movie I was promptly asked "why are so into this movie and not into me, I want u to f--k me now"

I was a little surprised but happy to oblige. I know what this girl likes and was able to make her come 3 times. After I finished she basically pushed me off her and started texting and making calls. Then informed me that we had to leave

because she was meeting up with friends at the club. I didn't even have all my clothes on and she was dragging me to her elevator. I kinda feel like a piece of meat but it is what is I guess
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Sperminator

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I remember when I got used for sex. I was like did I just get used for sex? Awesome. Dude who cares use her for a booty call. I would actually be happy bc you don't have to play games and take her out.
 
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WTF??? is this guy joking??? DUDE!!! USED!!!! hahaha i want to be used also!!!
 
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Five To One

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Next time try to get your clothes on and leave before she can tell you to leave. The second your done say,"Alright its been fun, ill talk to you later" or something. Doing that will make it feel more like your using her and you wont feel like a piece of meat.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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WC2

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As KontrollerX would say, this chick is a *** receptacle. Use her as so then make an exit out of the urinal. Don't fall into emotional feelings for a urinal.. they are dirty as hell.
 
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Rebound Material

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You know how many guys on this site would have more than loved to be in that situation?!(Points at myself) Was she on the REBOUND:rockon: ?!

Just as long as you don't get attached to this breezy then everything is cool.
 
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I kinda feel like a piece of meat


So did she, but not until afterward. Acting like the sex did not just happen is how she deals with feeling like a slvt.
 
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r0cky

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It all comes down to respect. If you had made her worked for it at least she would've showed you some respect afterwards. I get the feeling your performance did not deserve her respect either.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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the girl I lost my virginity used me that night for sex. We banged many other times after the first time but I found out she used me. She said that night we had sex I got in a fight with my bf and he said I would never be able to fvck another guy so I saw you and wanted to prove him wrong. I was like fvck i feel so used hahaha. Could also be i ddint talk to her for weeks after we first fvcked.
 
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She said that night we had sex I got in a fight with my bf and he said I would never be able to fvck another guy so I saw you and wanted to prove him wrong
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My ex girlfirned used to tell me the exact same thing, just switch genders(I would never be able to fvck another girl). Kinda wished I proved her wrong like this gal did. That is stupid for a guy to say that to a chick though, because almost any chick can easily find some dude to have sex with, even fat ones. Maybe he wanted her to cheat so he wouldn't feel so bad dumping her?
 
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