"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just got my Grapho Deck... anyone have experience?

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I just got it in the mail today. I can't wait to go sarging with this gimmick.

Does anyone know how you perform a reading? I mean I can't just go up to someone and ask them to write me a novel in cursive. LOL..

To my knowledge I guess I have them write a few letters? I'm flat out confused.

If you can help please reply if not sayanora! :D
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Quick bump from yesterday, don't know if this even got seen drowning in all these AFC threads
 

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Wasn't this one of Ross Jefferies big gimmicks?

He had a site with loads of info, but I don't know whether it's still going.

I think his line was simply, 'hey, just got this really neat thing for handwriting, and I can tell you all about yourself, can I practice on you, it'll be fun'

or something less corney.
 

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Originally posted by Alpine
Wasn't this one of Ross Jefferies big gimmicks?

He had a site with loads of info, but I don't know whether it's still going.

I think his line was simply, 'hey, just got this really neat thing for handwriting, and I can tell you all about yourself, can I practice on you, it'll be fun'

or something less corney.
Ross Jeffries did endorse it, but it wasn't one of his gimmicks, or at least it wasn't original. The Grapho Deck is by Bart Baggett and it is a set of cards, the size of playing cards, each one has a handwritting analysis/graphology trait that can be commonly found in people's writting. By using the deck, it becomes easier to learn some of the most common characteristics in the writting of people; it is another prop to get you to communicate with more people and to offer something interesting when you meet strangers.

I suggest you pick some of the most common traits and learn/memorize them, and use them with anybody you know. Don't ask them to write single letters. Tell them to write a specific sentence that you make up, wich will have the letters you are looking for (like letters t, o, y, e, etc.) in cursive writting and you'll be on your way.
 
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