"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Just got invited to an orgy.

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I've never participated in one. Long story short, I fvcked this fat chick ummm at least 5 months ago who's a friend of a chick I've recently boned. Connections come full circle and it seems their chatter about me has peaked to where it is now on a high level. I guess you could say that I am a "hot topic" among their friends (all slvts like they are, I'd presume). Anyway, they want me to come to a party TBD this month, mostly likely around Halloween. It may involve strip poker, dressing up like pimps and hoors, skinny dipping, etc.

As far as I know, it'd just be me and at least 5 or 6 women. I haven't asked if other dudes/SOs/bfs will be there. I probably should assume that right?

I guess I could handle that, but other dudes being there just takes the fun out of it I'd imagine, cause you'd have to act more macho or less sensitive to the ungodly pleasure multiple women (I've only had a 3-some) at the same time must feel like.

Idk, I've always been one to brave the unknown and this looks like an opportunity to stretch my boundaries once again. That's the artistic flavor of sex - almost Every sexual experience is unique and different UNLESS you are with the same g-damn'd woman every time. Only then, really, can sex be almost duplicated and thus boring zzzz. I don't think I'll ever get married. There'd be nothing else (or no one else) left to live for.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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lol. You know there's going to be some other dudes there.

Me personally i'd never reduce myself to sharing a woman with another man. I'd have to be super desperate and just low on self steem and self respect to bang a woman while another naked guy is present. I don't need that s___ in my life!
 

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f283000 said:
lol. You know there's going to be some other dudes there.

Me personally i'd never reduce myself to sharing a woman with another man. I'd have to be super desperate and just low on self steem and self respect to bang a woman while another naked guy is present. I don't need that s___ in my life!
I know, but I think I could tolerate One other guy or two other guys there as long as there are 3 women for every guy, because I'd be so tied up banging 3-4 at a time that I wouldn't even see the other dudes naked just hear them. I know that in Germany and Europe, fvcking parties are quite common. If they can do it, I can, and these women who get together with their girlfriends to throw these parties usually only invite the most fit and gifted guys they've fvcked before, guys who are built for sex i.e. like in a porno. I think that I am going to ask her/them if we'll be filmed. I don't want to take my mask off if that is the case. From what she said, I think that it will simply be drinking and parting in the backyard of one of her friends' houses, just complete out of control debauchery.

I will try to catch some of it on my iphone 4. This isn't the Only party either if all goes well. I guess that if I last long and withstand all the incessant pounding all night, then I'd be invited to all future sex parties as well. I was kinda shocked when she told me about it yesterday. I don't care if some of them are a wee-bit chubbier than I'm accustomed to. I haven't met but maybe an 1/8 or 1/10 of her girlfriends.
 

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f283000 said:
lol. You know there's going to be some other dudes there.

Me personally i'd never reduce myself to sharing a woman with another man. I'd have to be super desperate and just low on self steem and self respect to bang a woman while another naked guy is present. I don't need that s___ in my life!
Absolutely!

But if he decides to do it, he'd better wrap up his meat whistle good and tight.
 

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Poonani Maker said:
almost Every sexual experience is unique and different UNLESS you are with the same g-damn'd woman every time. Only then, really, can sex be almost duplicated and thus boring zzzz. I don't think I'll ever get married. There'd be nothing else (or no one else) left to live for.
That's a pretty sad commentary on your life atm. To where it is that empty that your only purpose in life is boning random sluts off of the internet. Sad.

Also, when you find the right person and get the right connection with them? Having sex with them on a regular basis is FAR MORE fulfilling than banging randoms. Not even close.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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In my opinion, any sexual experience a guy can have the involves another man, even if you don't touch each other but both knowingly mess with the same women the same time is at least slightly gay. A 100% straight man, would never want another guy to have anything to do with himself and sex. I've known friends to both double team on a girl, I don't know how they could do it, they even told me "hey let's get some rubbers so Jeff can get some" forget that I'll get some somewhere else....
 
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