"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Just got dumped--learn from my mistakes everyone!

Tazman

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I have a friend who plays video games all the time, even brings his girl over when we all play sometimes. I was surprised she's still with him because she's pretty good looking. One thing that sticks out is that he never supplicates to her and I think she respects that, I can't see why else she'd stay. I know guys have to be hitting on her all the time.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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quest

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Originally posted by Tazman
I have a friend who plays video games all the time, even brings his girl over when we all play sometimes. I was surprised she's still with him because she's pretty good looking. One thing that sticks out is that he never supplicates to her and I think she respects that, I can't see why else she'd stay. I know guys have to be hitting on her all the time.
low confidence b*tch.
she can be "pretty good looking" but have low confidence.

just think how many 'b*tches' who post here are "pretty good looking" but have low confidence.

and being that 95% of the guys out there are 'b*tches' chances are she isn't being hit on all the time.

chances are, the only place she'd be approached is a club, which wouldn't happen, because she wouldn't go to them.
 

frivolousz21

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just both give 100 percent then your fine.

if your girl doenst then she doesnt feel the same
 

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it's not your fault she dumped you, she was immature and didnt know what she was doing. IMO the girls that dump a guy like you are just dumb and never think about the future. They just want to have change or something. Though I always wonder if I might smother the girl I am with now. Love her to death but keep trying to keep that balance of not seeing her too much, but also want to live with her when her lease is up.
 
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