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I have a friend who plays video games all the time, even brings his girl over when we all play sometimes. I was surprised she's still with him because she's pretty good looking. One thing that sticks out is that he never supplicates to her and I think she respects that, I can't see why else she'd stay. I know guys have to be hitting on her all the time.
 

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Originally posted by Tazman
I have a friend who plays video games all the time, even brings his girl over when we all play sometimes. I was surprised she's still with him because she's pretty good looking. One thing that sticks out is that he never supplicates to her and I think she respects that, I can't see why else she'd stay. I know guys have to be hitting on her all the time.
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low confidence b*tch.
she can be "pretty good looking" but have low confidence.

just think how many 'b*tches' who post here are "pretty good looking" but have low confidence.

and being that 95% of the guys out there are 'b*tches' chances are she isn't being hit on all the time.

chances are, the only place she'd be approached is a club, which wouldn't happen, because she wouldn't go to them.
 
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just both give 100 percent then your fine.

if your girl doenst then she doesnt feel the same
 
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it's not your fault she dumped you, she was immature and didnt know what she was doing. IMO the girls that dump a guy like you are just dumb and never think about the future. They just want to have change or something. Though I always wonder if I might smother the girl I am with now. Love her to death but keep trying to keep that balance of not seeing her too much, but also want to live with her when her lease is up.
 
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