Just got broken up with advice!

[Willard]

My long distance g/f said she wanted to meet up with the long distance guy she was seeing months before me in two weeks. After a two hours on the phone, I told her permanent no contact, and I was going to see other people right away. We negotiated that I won't tell her about the girls I'm going to be seeing while we go no contact, and that she can have me back if she wants after meeting with the other guy, and I haven't met someone serious in that time.

We were planning on getting married this summer, and me moving to her city. I'm not really that upset, I have been seeing other women all along, while she hasn't. This woman is really wealthy, hot, and the sex is unreal.

I wanted no contact so I can quickly get over her in case she doesn't come back. She wants to talk and text every day.

We had a pretty good conversation, I really took control, I'm pretty sure she is coming back, If not I'm already seeing others.

Is no contact the way to go, I really want her back, what is my best option to do that?

 

[MOTU]

Absolutely you need to ghost her hardcore. And don't tell her you are going to do it, just do it.

She is not a keeper bro. Best outcome here is for her to now become a fvck buddy and maybe pay some of your bills. If she wants to go meet up with x to explore her feelings or whatever, her mind has already wandered. NEXT!

 

[IndeedSir]

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gw8luwwwXzc

 

[In2theGame]

My long distance g/f said she wanted to meet up with the long distance guy she was seeing months before me in two weeks. After a two hours on the phone, I told her permanent no contact, and I was going to see other people right away. We negotiated that I won't tell her about the girls I'm going to be seeing while we go no contact, and that she can have me back if she wants after meeting with the other guy, and I haven't met someone serious in that time.

We were planning on getting married this summer, and me moving to her city. I'm not really that upset, I have been seeing other women all along, while she hasn't. This woman is really wealthy, hot, and the sex is unreal.

I wanted no contact so I can quickly get over her in case she doesn't come back. She wants to talk and text every day.

We had a pretty good conversation, I really took control, I'm pretty sure she is coming back, If not I'm already seeing others.

Is no contact the way to go, I really want her back, what is my best option to do that?

So your allowing your chick to go fvck another guy? Because thats what's probably going to happen. Atleast thats what the other guy has in mind. Plus your making yourself a second option because if it works out with him... She aint comin back.

 

[VladPatton]

You're not using No Contact correctly. No Contact is permanent. You don't stop contact, then tell her she can have you back, or maybe not, while you still carry a torch for her.

When you are truly done you go No Contact and you cut your losses. That's it and that's all.

 

[Trump]

- My long distance g/f said she wanted to meet up with the long distance guy
- she can have me back if she wants after meeting with the other guy
- I'm not really that upset
- I have been seeing other women all along
- We were planning on getting married this summer
- I really want her back

Bro first of all you seem pretty confused.

Second, have some respect. Your long distance g/f is telling you wants to f another guy as hard as her body can, and you really want her back? Any girl who doesn't respect you should be shown the door. Otherwise she is laughing at you and you are pawn in her game.

Don't be a sucker, don't be made fool of. :box:

 

[rascal99v]

Dude, you're not in control of anything. She's already fvcking another guy. She already told you that she is. Long distance is lame. She will fvck the other guy when you're not around. Her telling you about him is a way to break up with you. Take the hint and see other women. You're trying to use no contact to get her back. She doesn't want you. Find new women.

 

[Willard]

I texted a girl I was seeing while I was seeing the long distance one, I had to end it because I didn't have the time, I was flying to Toronto every other week, we are going out next week. I'm also going on a date with a cute chick I met online.

I'm not going to write her off completely yet. I'm going to work on improving myself, karate and dance lessons, and I'm going to try to find someone better. If she actually calls and wants me back, I'm going to talk to her maybe have her visit me, I won't just take her back no questions asked. We have been in contact every day since we met, I'm sure this is difficult for her.

Since I've been dating other women while I have been seeing her and she has been exclusive with me, I'm not sure I can be that pissed at her for doing this. She said she isn't going to sleep with the dude right away, she was honest about it, she didn't have to tell me. I have been trying to meet someone better local so I could put her on the back burner, but nobody has measured up to her so far.

I appreciate the great advice