"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just got back from the bar watching UFC 79....

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I just got back from the local bar watching UFC 79, just before the liddell/silva fight i went to use the bathroom and there were 3 guys ahead of me waiting in line...the guy behind me was asking me if i was waiting for the bathroom...

He was about 5'4, fat dude with long black hair that was tied up, wearing a goofy as$ neon green cowboy hat with with plastic/silvery studs...and goofy brown, plastic sunglasses with the lenses missing, upside down, and what looked like a mardi-gras necklace with a blue emblem of a heart....i looked at him and i automatically knew what his intentions were....

Now in my buzzed state, i wasnt going to say anything but after i looked at him for the second time and he asked me if i was waiting for the bathroom, i replied with...

Ken- "Yeah...hey, you peacocking it tonight huh??"

Peacocking dude- "Hell yeah im peacocking it tonight!!"

After using the bathroom i asked for his email and said its good to find a member of the PUA community and that we should wing sometime...so we exchanged emails and that was it...

...wow, the community is really growing like crazy, especially now that Mystery came out with the tv show and Style with his new book...its crazy man.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What a fag.

Anyone else almost **** their pants when GSP wasted Matt Hughes at his own game?!
 

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i knew it was going to happen....GSP is a superior fighter, Matt hughes is done...and to get his as$ handed to him when GSP only got 30 days notice is shameful....

p.s. I still think Chuck did not really beat Silva, i think Silva is a better fighter and should have took chick to the ground instead of standing 90% of the time, instead it was Chuck that grounded him, which is what i dont think he expected...good game by chick. I still want to see a rematch.
 

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I expected GSP to win, but certainly not by a perfect submission.

Chuck deserved that win, Silva put up a hopelessly pathetic fight. He looked scared to death after Chuck connected with his first punch.
 

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Congrats on picking up a dude, Ken. Fvck peacocking.

I have nothing but respect for Matt Hughes. He bowed out gracefully.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TyTe`EyEs said:
Congrats on picking up a dude, Ken. Fvck peacocking.

I have nothing but respect for Matt Hughes. He bowed out gracefully.
LOL...funny. I agree this dude was goofy looking as hell and i think hes the kind that doesn't really know about self improvement but relies on pick up lines and routines. He talked about his brother opening up a set the other day like it was a big accomplishment....pathetic, but i need a wing. I need someone with the same interest even though were in different angles about how to pick up...im going at it with Inner game, he is obviously going with the Outter.

We'll see how this goes i guess, ill wing with him once to feel the water..
 

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he just sent me this email:
Subject: what it do?

To: ken

hey cuddy, this A.Jay from the bar. just hittin' you up to let you know that me and my folks are down for the cause. hopefully we can hook some **** up and sarge somewhere. I got 2 other folks in the game with me so it's all gravy. good lookin' out.

-Clockwork

Oh yeah, how long you been in the game for?
The ghetto language makes me not want to sarge with him anymore... he's a 5'3 fat, long haired Filipino kid who still has a lot of growing to do, obviously...
 

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^ you actually posted email here, from a dude? wtf is wrong with you...it's like you're overly dissecting this ish like guys overanalyze chicks. quit it before you go completely gay. and what's with him calling you "cuddy"?? is that some gay **** or what? you cuddle-buddies or something? i wonder what really went on in that bathroom...

btw, lidell owned that fight.
 

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magnet7 said:
^ you actually posted email here, from a dude? wtf is wrong with you...it's like you're overly dissecting this ish like guys overanalyze chicks. quit it before you go completely gay. and what's with him calling you "cuddy"?? is that some gay **** or what? you cuddle-buddies or something? i wonder what really went on in that bathroom...

btw, lidell owned that fight.
im not over analyzing anything...i just wanted to show how retarded this guy is....i doubt hes on here...any real DJ doesn't talk all that ghetto, hip hop, g.G.G.G uNiT sh!t like that and he doesn't walk around in goofy circus clown outfits to get women.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJDamage said:
You got a guy's phone number in a bathroom bar in San Francisco.

That doesn't sound too good Ken.
actually it was outside the bathroom and it wasn't actually in SF...it was 40 min away from there....hey man....you see this is why its so hard to make friends...its just too gay man...lol
 

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Ken, just meet some people from work or school.
 

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All the haters are homophobic, you're only gay when you engage in f@g activity and enjoy watching gay porn. The other dude was being nice since I'm pretty sure it's hard as hell to meet people in the "community."

It's pretty funny how you met the guy, I bet you'll be good sarge buddies. Wanderlei is old he should retire.
 

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Nip/Tuck said:
Wanderlei is old he should retire.
He is only 31 years old which is not old. I don't think he should retire. He is still a top 10 fighter. Besides if it was 10 min rounds and pride rules silva I feel takes that fight. Chuck was gassing, and chuck is 38 years old.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Nip/Tuck said:
All the haters are homophobic, you're only gay when you engage in f@g activity and enjoy watching gay porn. The other dude was being nice since I'm pretty sure it's hard as hell to meet people in the "community."

It's pretty funny how you met the guy, I bet you'll be good sarge buddies. Wanderlei is old he should retire.
we would be if he was just a bit maturer...but i cant hang around this Filipino "G..g..g..g.. G Unit N1gga n1gga" dude...his personality is just too different.
 
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