"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Just got back from a first date

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It was goin good we went put put golfing. i made fun of her, did a lot of kino, and we got real close. Then we went to go out for ice cream. Something bad happened on the way. I was talkin and i started jokin about sex and then she says not until marriage. I was like oh man. I didnt really say that. I played it cool and we went and got ice cream anyways. The date was good if you look at how a first date should go. We kissed too. But the winds were taken out of my sails when i was told of no sex before marriage. I really like this girl, but I just dont know what to do now that this factor has come into play. She is my prom date too. So what do I do? Do I just drop it altogether or do I keep going and hope for the best. Really my instincts say drop it after prom. B/c I cant drop her as my prom date b/c that would be shady as hell and everyone in school would find out and I would be hated by almost every girl. So, help would be great.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Heres my advice:
Go to church... learn about Christ... become a christian.. realize that sex before marriage is against the 10 commandments.. go to heaven. and then gg.
 
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DasaniWater

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dude

dont worry aboutsex on your first date. if your going to have it jepordize your relationship with her just cus of that then thats stupid. girls always says that.. doesnt mean its true. of course they dont want to seem sluttish. my gf said it. she was a virgin i popped her 6 months later.. the end.

haha pimp has a point i guess. although i dont think getting married and having sex and breaking up 2 months later is better way of doing it??? getting some liscense or some **** that says "we're married" into a contract or whatever doesnt equal love. you can have love without marrage and have sex. gg
 
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OMG your only 16 (like me:D). I dont give a dam if the girl likes sex or if she lesbian and would never have sex with a guy!! Just have fun!!, Date other women. There are planty girls out there that are single. Especially at 16 its easy to find a girl thats horny:D. And another thing: the girl probably was testing u on how you would react. Some poeple would have said something like "NO SEX??? **** YOU THEN *****!!!!" Well u reacted confident so just relax couse u got the game going!!
 
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well...she was like...its a "big" moral of hers. its right next to not murdering people for her. so, im not so sure that it was a test, but you guys are right. i shouldnt let it jeopardize the relationship
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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girlsarecrazy

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Drop her.. She's not going to be a fun and crazy girl. She's going to just fall in love with you and be clingy.

You are going to be the boyfriend that won't be getting any. Your friends will make fun of you. NEXT HER!
 
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If you want to get any action, find another girl. If you don't care about having sex with her though, then it doesn't matter now does it?
 
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i want to next her...but i really like her so i dont want this to be a harsh next, but more or less a subtle next. my prob is i f***ed myself for prom b/c now i pretty much have to take her. i already asked her out to prom before this date happened
 
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[]D [] []V[] []D said:
Heres my advice:
Go to church... learn about Christ... become a christian.. realize that sex before marriage is against the 10 commandments.. go to heaven. and then gg.
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I hope you were kidding...even if you werent, in my mind you were. Sooo...stop being so right winged and read the qu'ran.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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WTF are you talking about??

Those girls are the freakiest!

Continue dating her! (as well as 9 others)
 
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[]D [] []V[] []D said:
Heres my advice:
Go to church... learn about Christ... become a christian.. realize that sex before marriage is against the 10 commandments.. go to heaven. and then gg.
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:crackup:
 
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Don't next her just because she won't have sex with you now. First off, that could change if things go well on future dates. And high school dating, in my opinion, is about having fun, not getting laid all the time. Yes, its nice to get laid, but its also fun to go out and have fun with the girl.
 
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dannowillbookem

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you're the man.

you decide if you guys have sex.

you wanna have sex with her? of course you do. so go ahead, do it. prom sounds like a good time.
 
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