"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Just got a number - what do you make of this?

the_stig

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I was at the store tonight to print some photos and not knowing how to use the machine, I started teasing an HB6 next to me that she should help me. We started chatting and she explained she was copying all her childhood photos to a CD. I told how I just burned all my childhood vhs tapes onto dvd and she expressed interest in doing the same, asking if I could loan her my burner, or help her do the same. I was really nonchalant about it and said yeah, that should be fine. Next thing I know, she's handing me her number and asking for mine. Said she couldn't get the tapes for a few weeks, and I casually said "well, you can call or text whenever". It did feel like there was a vibe or some attraction by the way she was looking at me, but it's hard to say because our conversation was short. Does it sound like she's interested, or just wanting to use me for my equipment? I'm not quite sure how to proceed...
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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WhitePimp

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Yes, I always give my number out to people I just met who I don't find attractive, but simply want to use their burner. :rolleyes:

Common sense man, just assume she's into you until proven otherwise.
 

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You could just ask her out for a drink and eliminate all doubt about this situation. "Hey it's stig. What are you up to this Wednesday? Let's do happy hour."

It's probably easier than analyzing it here.
 

runner83

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the_stig said:
Does it sound like she's interested, or just wanting to use me for my equipment?
LOL.

Who knows, she may very well be wanting to use you for your "equipment"..and I'm not talking about your DVD burner... :up:

Only one way to find out, like Iceberg said.

Also, goes without saying that you are under no obligation to help her with her tapes until she proves herself worthy of your time and effort.
 

f283000

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What do I make of this? NOTHING!

and so should you. Once you start making SOMETHING out of NOTHING that's when you begin to fail. Getting a number is nothing you have to close the deal. Some girls give out their # like they give friend requests to total strangers. It feeds their ego and nothing else.

Don't even think about it, just ask her out, see what happens. Check out the 2 strikes rule in my signature. If nothing happens just go to the NEXT.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Chickfight

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runner83 said:
LOL.

Who knows, she may very well be wanting to use you for your "equipment"..and I'm not talking about your DVD burner... :up:

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Agh, you beat me to it :D


Anyway, exactly what Iceberg says, but it's pretty ****ing obvious she was attracted to you. Don't be daft, punk.
 

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Agree with you all. I mentioned just briefly she could add me on facebook, don't use it much anyways, and she already sent me a friend request with a cute little note. That was the last place I expected to get a number and I didn't even have to do any work :rockon:
 
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