Just got a girls number but when should i call???

[GArch]

Okay i went to this small party at a friends hows and this attractive girl walks in with her sister says hi to every on you know then later on i walk up to her and start talking she seemed like a really nice girl none of those party animal girls that are just one night stands. but whatever I had to go cuz i work early so i asked for here number she gave it to me now thats where i always mess up.
when should i call???? what should i say when i call to get a date with her?? i know she like opera and she already has season tickets to the opera shows. i dont know i need your help??

 

[Ice.]

When should you call? Whenever the fvck you feel like calling

 

[THE_ADDMAN]

when you're hankerin for a booty call

 

[guitarslinger]

Hey dude,
Nice work with the number and all, it's really not too hard is it? Anyways, if I want to take a chick out on Friday then I will call her and tee it up on Tuesday, as it is unlikely she has plans yet. The point is, whenever you call her make sure she has a couple of days to get it together, if you call and say "hey lets go out tonight" she is probably already doing something (or she has no social life). When you call her just say make small talk for a minute, how are you, did you like the party blah blah blah, then tell her it would be cool if she came to (insert date here) with you. If she says no then just play mock hurt, chat for a minute then get off the phone. Then you call her next week, if she bails then she probably doesn't want to go out with you.

Peace out

 

[Thomas94305]

GArch..
1) RELAX.. being nervous will only queer the deal. If a woman or a man is nervous around me, I'd ask.. what's up with this? Being with someone nervous just isn't fun.
2) As for when to call.. 2-3 days after you get the number is a reasonable rule. Ice's reply is another reasonable rule. You don't want to call the next day, as it comes off as pushy and desperate. However, if she's into you, she'll be waiting for your call. A female friend of mine's told me that if she likes the guy, she'll be wondering.. will he call? when's he going to call? will he call? She gets bothered holding that too long, and emotionally will need to move on. If she's not into you, it really doesn't matter when you call...
3) RELAX
4) When you call her, act as if you've known her for years. How do you talk with your long time friends?
5) RELAX
6) When you decide what to do together, and get together, put aside the fact you find her attractive. Ask how you'd want this to go apart from the sexuality. Do you want to joke with people? Do you want in depth discussions about stimulating topics? Do you just want to hang? I'm not into opera, so I'd just tell her either no, or I might try it, but another time. What I usually do is pick out a handful of things I find fun doing. I then have her choose from these things, or come up with another idea. If she mentions something else, I'm not afraid to tell her I'm just not into that. If you go do something you hate doing, you'll just have a bad date.. you won't get anywhere with her then.
7) RELAX
8) Women really have no idea if they are hot or not, just like guys. She's not making it an issue, you shouldn't either. She's friendly towards you, so expect that to continue.
9) RELAX

Good luck, let us know how it goes...

 

[AZTECA]

GArch...

Daywise, from my experiences, usually calling a girl on Sunday afternnon-Wed are coo' days to call and set up meetings cuz usually, they start making plans wid their girls (or dates) after thusrday for partying and other outings.

Usually when I get a number I'll wait for about 2-3days then call her between monday-wed cuz they really don't have much to do other than shopping and other stuff like that....

hope this helps...

AZTECA out!