"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Just Friends (sike)

612_Da_Playa

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I know you guys are like, "612 this thread has been the most often requested question of all time." or "Hey 612, just go to search." I have both searched but to no avail as I am about to address what I am going to say.

Well I'm here to get specifics and past experience with this method. The "I'm just her friend until she is attracted to me" method. I'm not talkin about the "Let's Just Be Friends" that she may say to you. I'm talking about just hanging out with her as if she was one of your guys. Has anyone tried this? Has it worked? Specifics
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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NYC Dude

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If you treat her as just a friend, she will treat you as just a friend. I tell you this because it is obvious and because it has happened to me. If you treat her as "just one of the guys," she will turn into "just one of the guys."
 

DJ4Real

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Never tried it. If you do that, i'm sure she'll see you as just a friend though. Some girls like a guy to treat her like the guys. But I think you shouldn't do that because she may become too acquainted to just being "one of the guys".
 

SlyD4rK

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read weapons of mass seduction by Mr Fingers

his main technique (i think) is too basically treat a girl like you have known her forever (friend) ...i know you're like "that will lead you straight to the friends zone" well that's true....if you don't use kino...

kino is the easiest way to increase sexual attraction between 2 people
 
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