"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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612_Da_Playa

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I know you guys are like, "612 this thread has been the most often requested question of all time." or "Hey 612, just go to search." I have both searched but to no avail as I am about to address what I am going to say.

Well I'm here to get specifics and past experience with this method. The "I'm just her friend until she is attracted to me" method. I'm not talkin about the "Let's Just Be Friends" that she may say to you. I'm talking about just hanging out with her as if she was one of your guys. Has anyone tried this? Has it worked? Specifics
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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NYC Dude

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If you treat her as just a friend, she will treat you as just a friend. I tell you this because it is obvious and because it has happened to me. If you treat her as "just one of the guys," she will turn into "just one of the guys."
 

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Never tried it. If you do that, i'm sure she'll see you as just a friend though. Some girls like a guy to treat her like the guys. But I think you shouldn't do that because she may become too acquainted to just being "one of the guys".
 

SlyD4rK

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read weapons of mass seduction by Mr Fingers

his main technique (i think) is too basically treat a girl like you have known her forever (friend) ...i know you're like "that will lead you straight to the friends zone" well that's true....if you don't use kino...

kino is the easiest way to increase sexual attraction between 2 people
 
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